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NARRATOR: Previously...

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I'm done with
this experiment.

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Stephanie and Tyson's
time in the experiment

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came to a dramatic end.

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Our couples continued to grow
and learn from the experts.

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You guys showed me that I was
in the wrong, very, very much.

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And while romantic
progress was on display...

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Grinning from ear to ear!

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..Stella and Filip's
stalemate on who will say

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'I love you' first, continued.

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A man has to say it first.

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What is holding
you back, Filip?

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It's, I dunno, yeah, we'll see.

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..hatred at times.

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Are you even listening to what I'm
saying? Don't speak over Alessandra.

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Show some respect.

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Juliette was held to account.

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You talk in a very
toxic fight style.

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You can't say sorry.

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I've apologised.
Not very well.

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And despite her
choosing to stay,

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Joel drew his line in the sand.

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I will always treat you
with kindness.

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And I expect the same
treatment back.

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Giving the couple
one more week to turn

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their marriage around.
Tonight...

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It's hard to say
things like this.

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I definitely haven't been
one to kind of lean into

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my feelings or emotions.

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Alessandra had a had
a good point, yeah.

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Why can't you just verbalise
it to each other, you know?

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Will Filip finally
say those magic words

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that Stella's been dying to hear?

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His leg is shaking.
It's OK, baby.

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And then...

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(CHEERS)

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..it's time for the annual
couples retreat.

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Whee!
Woo!

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Yay! Very, very
content right now.

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How good is this?

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Our newlyweds are loving
the brand new location.

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And the happy couples
are all singing Kumbaya.

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I feel like the group vibe's
quite nice.

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Ladies and gentlemen, can I have
you guys over here, please?

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Until...
It's the first night of retreat.

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We've had (BLEEP)...
..one bad joke...

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(TEARFULLY) I just want to leave.

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sends the retreat
into meltdown.

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Stop!
He called her a liar.

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I'm done being
manipulated by you!

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What is the punch line...

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Guys, guy!
..that will break bonds?

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She is a liar!

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I'm so sick of this.

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Stop attacking
people and walk away.

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And derail the course
of the experiment...

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Get me out of here.
..forever.

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Made me feel like
a piece of shit.

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He left.

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We've crossed the halfway
mark

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of the 2026 Married at First Sight
experiment.

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And many of our couples are
forming strong romantic

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connections, working together
to overcome relationship

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hurdles and crossing significant
milestones in their marriages.

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One couple in particular
is waking up after

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reaching an exciting new
milestone of their own.

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(LAUGHING)

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Oh, what's so funny?

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Mine and Steven's
relationship is really good.

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This is...
Why aren't we clicking today?

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This is really bad!

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This is really...
We're usually good at this.

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I know why.

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It's because there's
something that we don't

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want to talk about.

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Big weekend that
me and Rachel had.

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We're definitely
moving things along.

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Uh, we haven't...

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We haven't had sex.

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Um, but we've started
foolin' about, so that's fun.

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We get to talk about it,
and everyone's going to be

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asking questions, and we're
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it was fantastic.

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What was fantastic?

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Despite sharing a positive
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the couple's most
significant challenge so far

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has been forming physical
intimacy, and Steven's

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reluctance was highlighted
during Intimacy Week.

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I can kiss you,
Rachel, but I'm not too

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sure if it's going to
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Meeting with his family,
Steven was presented with

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some valuable insight from his
brother, Dylan, and mum, Anna.

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I feel like she's
like this on Steve.

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And Steve's just sitting
here like this. Yes.

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Yeah.
Come on, dude.

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She obviously is
really into you.

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And I feel like maybe
you've got to let your

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wall down a little bit.

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NARRATOR: At last night's commitment
ceremony, Steven's newfound

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focus on his connection with
Rachel didn't go unnoticed

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by the experts.

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Oh, look at you two
all cuddled up on the couch there.

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Ooh, that's cosy!

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We noticed that.

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What's changed?
What's going on?

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You know, we had a pretty
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and a cuddle on the bed
last night, so it's definitely

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a step in the right direction.

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Me and Rachel have developed
intimacy just a smidge more.

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It felt natural.

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Alessandra did say bring some
more romance and stuff to it.

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And yeah, we both had fun.

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The girls will be really excited.
Interrogating?

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No, I don't think the girls
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but there better be bottles of
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because we will be wanting to pop
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I'm not going to go into
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last night, we just sat on the bed
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a really good chat about intimacy.

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Um, and then essentially
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to bed, and it just took off.

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Yeah, you can tell the boys.

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Tell the boys. I can do this,

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"Hey, boys, I made second base."

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Jesus Christ.
I don't think

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he understands
what the bases are.

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Steven said

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for him to want to increase
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further with someone,
he has to have that, you know,

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emotional attraction.

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So he must have it,
which is really exciting.

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Very happy girl.

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Do what I can.

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Unfortunately, not everyone
is happy in their marriage.

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Joel is feeling the effects
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commitment ceremony.

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I've woken up this
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The experts revealed some of
the things Juliette said about me,

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and that was like
a knife through my heart.

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Your behaviour last night,

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it was mean and cruel.

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You called him a liar.
You said he wasn't a man.

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You called him a little boy.

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You said he was embarrassing
and you found him unattractive.

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Is there hope moving
forward with Juliette?

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I actually don't know. The onus
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to repair the relationship.

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There's no doubt about that.

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Hey.
Hey.

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How are you feeling?

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Been better.

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Um...

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Look, I'm just really sorry.

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I guess I didn't realise
how much you were hurting.

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Um, when I say words
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it's when I'm really, really
hurting.

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And I guess I use it
as a way of releasing my pain.

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Not recognising who's on
the other side of that release.

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And I'm really sorry
for my actions.

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I feel shit.

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I was wondering this
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next step would be, and I think
she took the right one.

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She came and apologised
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Well, it was a really, really
intense, confronting session

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for both of us last night.

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We can all say things that
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loved ones, when we're angry or
whatever, but I don't like

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to see you in pain.

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I accept your apology.

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Thanks.

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OK.

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It's OK.

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I was expecting him
to be a lot more angrier

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and upset this morning,
considering how angry he was

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on the couch last night.

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I appreciate you forgiving me.

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I think I need to take some time
to take care of my heart as well

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in this experiment.

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It's it's been very emotional
for you, and for me too.

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But we're in this experiment
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the best way forward is just to
leave everything in the past,

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you know, and start fresh.

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I think this morning showed
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side of Juliette, and that
gives me hope for the future.

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It's not in my nature to
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and I'm willing to let the past
stay in the past. Forgive.

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Thanks, babes.

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And move forward.

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New page.

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Throw the old book out, right?
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Down the hall. David is
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after Alissa's revelation at last
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David, he gives me a lot.

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But there's some things
that he can't give me.

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I function at a higher
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and I feel like we're six weeks in,

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I'm missing that stimulation,
that high frequency

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that I would normally get from my
relationships to make me happy.

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Yeah, I don't like the use
of the word 'stimulated.'

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Like, I don't think that
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explaining that it's because,
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friends and family
and all the noise in the outside.

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I mean, we're all here
for the same reasons.

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We all have all the noise
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Your own experience is your
experience, but someone

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on the outside listening in
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differently because they
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inside of being unstimulated.

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But if they think Alissa
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together, spending every
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um, and Alissa feels
unstimulated,

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it's like, uh, who...

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It's like David's fault
because he's being boring.

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I feel like, babe, I feel like
you're overthinking it

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because I sat down in front
of the experts and I literally

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said, "This is a me thing,"
and I don't know why

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you're dragging yourself into it.

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I'm really not dragging.

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I'm just having
the conversation.

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This is a me main thing, babe.
Yeah, I understand.

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And I'm a more high
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My brain's like
(HIGH PITCHED BABBLE) all the time.

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Like, my frequencies vibrate
higher than yours,

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whereas you're more chill.
Yeah.

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You know, you're the opposite of me.
What do you mean

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by your frequencies vibrate...
I'm a more louder, outgoing,

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sort of busy sort of person.

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I feel like frequency, again,
is the wrong word.

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Stimulation, that's something
that I'm funny with. Frequency...

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I feel like...
You're in a foul mood today.

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I feel like...

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You are in a foul mood today,
babe.

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You are taking everything
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I feel like I can't get
my word across to David.

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OK, so obviously moving
forward, I think for

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the lack of stimulation that I'm
not getting in this, you know,

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in this environment, then I'm
going to do things for myself.

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You know, like, obviously
we do amazing dates together.

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Um, but for me personally,
I feel like maybe that might

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be a bit of self-care,
you know, massage, facial.

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There are other ways
that I can fill my cup up

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and, you know, get that
simulation that I need,

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in other ways.
But I'll always tell you.

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Yeah. No, I appreciate that.

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That's good.

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I feel like David and I
are on the same page.

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I feel like he finally
understood what I meant

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at the table,
but it took him a while.

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We got there. We got there.

251
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You are hard work today, boy.
Honestly.

252
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As a brand-new week
gets underway...

253
00:12:17,080 --> 00:12:18,760
How you doin'?
Good. I'm pumped.

254
00:12:18,880 --> 00:12:20,040
Today's the day.

255
00:12:20,160 --> 00:12:21,600
I'm packing my activities.

256
00:12:22,080 --> 00:12:24,520
..our couples are
preparing for the next step

257
00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:25,920
in their relationships.

258
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Retreat day.

259
00:12:27,040 --> 00:12:28,200
Retreat day.

260
00:12:28,320 --> 00:12:31,200
The relationship retreat
is an exciting and important

261
00:12:31,320 --> 00:12:32,600
phase of the experiment.

262
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It's a chance for our couples
to leave their normal day to day

263
00:12:36,120 --> 00:12:38,800
and get a fresh perspective
on their marriage

264
00:12:38,920 --> 00:12:42,160
in a different setting. Getting away
and spending time in a new

265
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environment will help breathe
life into relationships

266
00:12:44,800 --> 00:12:46,520
that might be in a rut.

267
00:12:47,000 --> 00:12:49,640
It can help break negative
patterns and progress

268
00:12:49,760 --> 00:12:50,720
the relationship.

269
00:12:51,720 --> 00:12:53,720
Going on retreat.
We're getting out of here!

270
00:12:53,840 --> 00:12:55,480
Don't get me wrong.
This is a palace over here,

271
00:12:55,600 --> 00:12:58,400
but we're going to be substituting
it for hopefully,

272
00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:01,960
a little bit of coastline,
a lot more sun.

273
00:13:02,080 --> 00:13:03,880
And I think it's just going
to be a good break from

274
00:13:04,000 --> 00:13:05,720
whatever the experiment's
been dishing out.

275
00:13:06,200 --> 00:13:07,760
I can see you got all
the essentials there.

276
00:13:07,880 --> 00:13:09,080
I've got the cards,
I've got the games,

277
00:13:09,200 --> 00:13:12,520
I've got the football ball,
the skipping rope, the booty band.

278
00:13:12,640 --> 00:13:14,280
I'm bringing another
cards game.

279
00:13:14,400 --> 00:13:17,200
I also packed astrology book to
check everyone's matches, too.

280
00:13:17,880 --> 00:13:18,880
Yeah.
(LAUGHTER)

281
00:13:21,520 --> 00:13:22,960
You know, the magician
gets the hat?

282
00:13:23,080 --> 00:13:24,640
Yeah, they just keep coming.

283
00:13:24,760 --> 00:13:26,120
It just keeps coming.

284
00:13:26,240 --> 00:13:27,440
Got Uggies..

285
00:13:27,560 --> 00:13:29,920
Couple warm dresses...
Warm, cold.

286
00:13:30,440 --> 00:13:32,200
Uh, toiletries and stuff,
you got all that?

287
00:13:32,320 --> 00:13:34,280
Yeah.
Gotta do that.

288
00:13:34,400 --> 00:13:35,320
Thank you.

289
00:13:35,800 --> 00:13:37,680
Oh my god. Are you excited?

290
00:13:37,800 --> 00:13:38,800
I'm super keen.

291
00:13:39,480 --> 00:13:41,120
Scott and I are
pretty solid as usual.

292
00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:42,640
We had a really good weekend.

293
00:13:42,760 --> 00:13:44,640
I just want to get away,
have some sun.

294
00:13:45,240 --> 00:13:47,560
Relax. This is gonna be so fun.

295
00:13:47,680 --> 00:13:49,480
Who you looking
forward to seeing?

296
00:13:49,600 --> 00:13:51,280
I think I want a chance
to meet everyone.

297
00:13:51,400 --> 00:13:54,040
I think being a later couple,
like they're all,

298
00:13:54,160 --> 00:13:57,080
have bonded with each other a lot.
I'm actually excited.

299
00:13:57,200 --> 00:13:59,080
Like, when I'm in a social
environment with Chris,

300
00:13:59,200 --> 00:14:01,080
it's actually when I feel closest
to him because we both like,

301
00:14:01,200 --> 00:14:02,080
love that environment.

302
00:14:02,200 --> 00:14:03,520
And I see the best
side of Chris.

303
00:14:03,640 --> 00:14:05,080
Yeah, it'll be awesome.

304
00:14:05,200 --> 00:14:06,600
I've got no beef with anyone.

305
00:14:06,720 --> 00:14:08,320
You've got no beef with anyone.

306
00:14:09,000 --> 00:14:11,520
I just want to steer clear
of it all.

307
00:14:11,640 --> 00:14:13,320
I'm just going to
sit back and watch.

308
00:14:13,440 --> 00:14:15,880
Danny and I are in a really,
really good place at the moment.

309
00:14:16,000 --> 00:14:17,480
So, like, you know, I just...

310
00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,360
I just want to protect
our peace.

311
00:14:19,480 --> 00:14:21,520
Yeah. No grenades
being dropped by me.

312
00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:22,760
You sure you're not
going to drop any?

313
00:14:22,880 --> 00:14:23,760
No.
It's been a week.

314
00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:27,080
You must be getting...
Daniel. ..getting the itch.

315
00:14:27,200 --> 00:14:28,120
Daniel.

316
00:14:30,840 --> 00:14:32,160
No-one thinks you're funny.

317
00:14:32,760 --> 00:14:35,400
If there's drama, watch me sink back
into the, like

318
00:14:35,520 --> 00:14:37,440
Homer Simpson into the bush.

319
00:14:37,560 --> 00:14:40,120
Like, I don't want to be
involved in any of it.

320
00:14:40,240 --> 00:14:41,600
Do you reckon
there'll be any news?

321
00:14:41,720 --> 00:14:44,440
I think the most interesting one
will be the dynamic

322
00:14:44,560 --> 00:14:46,120
between Juliette and Joel.

323
00:14:46,240 --> 00:14:47,920
They might be head over
heels in love by now.

324
00:14:48,040 --> 00:14:48,920
Um...

325
00:14:49,040 --> 00:14:50,520
You never know what's going
to happen on this experiment.

326
00:14:50,640 --> 00:14:51,560
Surely not.

327
00:14:53,600 --> 00:14:56,520
Across the hall,
having packed for the couple's

328
00:14:56,640 --> 00:14:59,720
retreat, there's something
on Filip's mind.

329
00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:01,240
What did you think
of last night?

330
00:15:01,360 --> 00:15:03,520
It was great.
It was a good little chat.

331
00:15:04,600 --> 00:15:06,440
What did you think
about their feedback?

332
00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:07,520
Kind of what they
were telling us.

333
00:15:07,640 --> 00:15:11,240
I love that I needed to give
a high five to Alessandra

334
00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:15,000
for the same views that the man
needs to say 'I love you' first.

335
00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:16,400
Oh, really?

336
00:15:16,520 --> 00:15:18,120
Yeah, love it. Love that.
Do you agree with that?

337
00:15:18,240 --> 00:15:19,480
Uh...

338
00:15:21,480 --> 00:15:23,280
Uh, there's something that
I've been thinking about

339
00:15:23,400 --> 00:15:24,280
for the last few weeks.

340
00:15:24,400 --> 00:15:27,320
I think there's one thing that, um,
she did kind of

341
00:15:27,440 --> 00:15:28,920
say that I was just like,

342
00:15:29,040 --> 00:15:30,160
'Oh, yeah, you're right.'

343
00:15:30,280 --> 00:15:32,600
It was kind of brought forth
on the commitment ceremony

344
00:15:32,720 --> 00:15:34,880
when Alessandra was like, "I don't
understand the confusion here.

345
00:15:35,000 --> 00:15:35,880
"What's happening?"

346
00:15:36,000 --> 00:15:37,480
Like, "You guys are
obviously feeling it."

347
00:15:38,160 --> 00:15:41,840
You were mentioning that
you guys feel things and that

348
00:15:41,960 --> 00:15:46,000
you know because you know,
and you're communicating that

349
00:15:46,120 --> 00:15:48,960
by Morse code and looks,
but no words.

350
00:15:50,080 --> 00:15:51,440
Ah...yeah.
Yeah.

351
00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:52,680
We're tiptoeing around.

352
00:15:53,160 --> 00:15:54,320
In this environment,

353
00:15:54,440 --> 00:15:56,600
in another environment,
if you're feeling

354
00:15:56,720 --> 00:15:57,600
then you're feeling.

355
00:15:57,720 --> 00:16:00,520
And I think that needs
to be celebrated.

356
00:16:02,080 --> 00:16:03,720
It's hard to say
things like this.

357
00:16:03,840 --> 00:16:06,120
I definitely haven't been one
to kind of lean into

358
00:16:06,240 --> 00:16:08,000
my feelings or emotions,
you know?

359
00:16:08,120 --> 00:16:11,920
So there was something that kind
of etched in my mind last night.

360
00:16:12,440 --> 00:16:15,000
Alessandra had a had
a good point, yeah.

361
00:16:15,120 --> 00:16:16,840
You either feel it or not.
Why can't you just

362
00:16:16,960 --> 00:16:18,200
verbalise it to each other?

363
00:16:18,320 --> 00:16:20,320
You know, if it's that obvious.

364
00:16:21,120 --> 00:16:23,440
So the hesitation
was a little bit of fear.

365
00:16:24,720 --> 00:16:26,800
His leg is shaking.
It's OK, baby.

366
00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:29,880
I haven't said this
to anyone in six years.

367
00:16:30,880 --> 00:16:32,080
What if you're coming
on too strong

368
00:16:32,200 --> 00:16:33,880
and it's only you feeling it?

369
00:16:34,400 --> 00:16:36,800
I had a think about
what she said.

370
00:16:36,920 --> 00:16:40,960
And...yeah, you are different.
You're special.

371
00:16:41,080 --> 00:16:42,280
Thank you.

372
00:16:42,400 --> 00:16:45,080
And I am in love with you.

373
00:16:50,080 --> 00:16:51,080
Honey!

374
00:16:51,800 --> 00:16:53,840
What!
I knew! Did ya?

375
00:17:00,040 --> 00:17:01,280
It doesn't take
a rocket scientist

376
00:17:01,400 --> 00:17:03,080
to figure it out. It doesn't bloody
take a rocket scientist.

377
00:17:04,880 --> 00:17:07,560
And I haven't said
that in a while.

378
00:17:07,680 --> 00:17:10,920
So... Where do you stand?

379
00:17:11,040 --> 00:17:12,040
Same spot.

380
00:17:12,160 --> 00:17:13,360
What is that?

381
00:17:13,480 --> 00:17:14,600
Being in love.

382
00:17:14,720 --> 00:17:15,640
Yeah.

383
00:17:21,880 --> 00:17:22,880
Coming up...

384
00:17:23,680 --> 00:17:24,680
Um...

385
00:17:26,080 --> 00:17:28,440
What's got Stella
holding back?

386
00:17:28,560 --> 00:17:29,880
When we started to have
those chats,

387
00:17:30,000 --> 00:17:31,840
it kind of all got very,
very serious.

388
00:17:31,960 --> 00:17:33,880
And that's becoming hard.

389
00:17:34,800 --> 00:17:35,880
Uh...oh, god.

390
00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:37,040
I feel like I'm going to cry.

391
00:17:43,200 --> 00:17:46,040
NARRATOR: This year,
for the very first time,

392
00:17:46,160 --> 00:17:51,080
the annual couples retreat is
heading two hours south of Sydney

393
00:17:51,200 --> 00:17:53,560
to the picturesque town of Kiama.

394
00:17:54,280 --> 00:17:57,440
Located on a sprawling property,
a stone's throw away

395
00:17:57,560 --> 00:17:59,160
from the coastline,

396
00:18:00,120 --> 00:18:03,360
it will be a chance for
couples to embrace nature

397
00:18:03,480 --> 00:18:07,000
and gain further perspectives
in a new environment.

398
00:18:07,680 --> 00:18:12,240
And as always, staking claim
to a bedroom is top priority.

399
00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:14,760
(EXCITED YELLING)

400
00:18:20,560 --> 00:18:22,720
(YELLS, CHEERS)

401
00:18:24,480 --> 00:18:25,480
It was chaotic.

402
00:18:26,120 --> 00:18:27,120
I farted!

403
00:18:28,440 --> 00:18:31,720
I'm going as hard as I can
and they're just pulling away.

404
00:18:32,800 --> 00:18:35,640
Me and my short
little stumpy legs.

405
00:18:35,760 --> 00:18:37,280
And everyone's seven foot tall.

406
00:18:37,400 --> 00:18:39,640
Their one step is
equivalent to six of mine.

407
00:18:44,200 --> 00:18:45,200
(BLEEP)!

408
00:18:51,520 --> 00:18:52,520
All good!

409
00:18:54,640 --> 00:18:55,920
I got it.

410
00:18:56,040 --> 00:18:57,200
Scott, he got the...

411
00:18:57,720 --> 00:18:59,200
He's got the king's palace
up there.

412
00:18:59,320 --> 00:19:01,200
He's got the bathtub
looking out here.

413
00:19:01,320 --> 00:19:03,320
Sun shining through,
bed in the middle.

414
00:19:03,440 --> 00:19:04,480
He's got a kitchenette.

415
00:19:05,000 --> 00:19:06,440
No place like home.

416
00:19:06,560 --> 00:19:07,680
Oh, my room's pretty good.

417
00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:14,200
Coming at the perfect time
for their intimacy development,

418
00:19:14,320 --> 00:19:18,000
Steven has secured a secluded
room for he and Rachel.

419
00:19:18,120 --> 00:19:20,640
So we got the guest house,
and it's away

420
00:19:20,760 --> 00:19:22,280
from everyone as well.

421
00:19:23,360 --> 00:19:25,720
Go, son!
Keep up with the boys!

422
00:19:26,920 --> 00:19:28,400
(LAUGHTER(

423
00:19:28,520 --> 00:19:30,760
Ah! Your boy did it!

424
00:19:30,880 --> 00:19:31,800
I delivered.

425
00:19:32,680 --> 00:19:33,800
I brought home the bacon.

426
00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:35,480
In the oven!

427
00:19:36,440 --> 00:19:38,960
We got it! Go, go, go, go, go.

428
00:19:39,080 --> 00:19:40,040
This is nice.

429
00:19:40,160 --> 00:19:41,440
This is so cute!

430
00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:43,120
I'm so happy boo!

431
00:19:44,800 --> 00:19:47,520
Babe, you did so good!
Oh!

432
00:19:48,800 --> 00:19:51,040
I can't believe we're
on the retreat, guys! Woo!

433
00:19:52,080 --> 00:19:54,040
We're on a couples retreat! Yay!

434
00:19:55,960 --> 00:19:57,200
You go!

435
00:19:57,320 --> 00:19:58,240
Wee!

436
00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:01,920
(EXCITED CHATTER)

437
00:20:03,200 --> 00:20:04,640
We got the best room.

438
00:20:04,760 --> 00:20:05,960
Oh, this is comfy.

439
00:20:06,080 --> 00:20:07,440
Princess.
Wow.

440
00:20:07,560 --> 00:20:08,600
Best room in the house.

441
00:20:08,720 --> 00:20:09,600
Oh, yeah.

442
00:20:09,720 --> 00:20:13,080
Very, very content right now.
We, we... He did very well.

443
00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:15,560
Honestly, we're so lucky.

444
00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:19,080
I feel like this retreat
is gonna keep me and Gia

445
00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,000
close, inseparable.

446
00:20:21,120 --> 00:20:24,280
And, like, we're just here
to enjoy this retreat

447
00:20:24,400 --> 00:20:25,320
as if it's a honeymoon.

448
00:20:27,720 --> 00:20:28,720
Hello!

449
00:20:32,960 --> 00:20:35,000
Hey, what a nice
little area to chill.

450
00:20:35,120 --> 00:20:37,400
There's a little swing here!

451
00:20:37,520 --> 00:20:39,160
Higher, daddy. Higher, daddy.

452
00:20:39,280 --> 00:20:40,840
Yeah, it is a pretty
sweet pad, though.

453
00:20:40,960 --> 00:20:43,480
It's unreal. The view,
like it's so secluded.

454
00:20:43,600 --> 00:20:45,760
Pool. Should
be a good few days.

455
00:20:49,480 --> 00:20:50,600
How stunning is that?

456
00:20:52,280 --> 00:20:55,760
Last week was a really,
really tough week, and I think

457
00:20:55,880 --> 00:20:59,080
this week, I'm just focusing on
having tunnel vision

458
00:20:59,200 --> 00:21:00,760
of just me and Joel.

459
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:02,640
So that's the goal.

460
00:21:03,400 --> 00:21:04,360
This is cute.

461
00:21:04,480 --> 00:21:05,760
Yeah, this is
a change of events.

462
00:21:05,880 --> 00:21:07,320
Yeah. We cleared the air.

463
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:08,920
Did you?

464
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:15,400
This is so good. I'm excited
for you! Joel and Juliette, um...

465
00:21:15,520 --> 00:21:16,800
Wow, they've come
leaps and bounds.

466
00:21:16,920 --> 00:21:18,840
I did not expect to see that.

467
00:21:18,960 --> 00:21:20,920
Uh, what is going on there?

468
00:21:21,040 --> 00:21:23,160
Are we good at the moment?
I love it.

469
00:21:23,280 --> 00:21:24,880
Hopefully forever.

470
00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,560
What you're seeing
is genuine.

471
00:21:27,680 --> 00:21:28,800
Good!

472
00:21:29,320 --> 00:21:31,160
So how are you feeling
about, um, you know, a few days

473
00:21:31,280 --> 00:21:32,560
at the retreat together?

474
00:21:32,680 --> 00:21:34,040
Well, I think it's
come at the perfect time.

475
00:21:34,160 --> 00:21:35,440
I agree.

476
00:21:35,560 --> 00:21:36,480
Um...

477
00:21:37,680 --> 00:21:38,680
Yeah, wow.

478
00:21:38,800 --> 00:21:41,200
So this will be
the first night in the...

479
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:42,200
Together?

480
00:21:42,320 --> 00:21:43,960
..bed, first time sleeping
together since the first

481
00:21:44,080 --> 00:21:45,880
night of the honeymoon.
OK!

482
00:21:46,000 --> 00:21:49,560
So I think this is
honeymoon version two.

483
00:21:49,680 --> 00:21:52,600
I already feel like we're
very vibey with each other.

484
00:21:53,280 --> 00:21:54,480
More power to you, queen.

485
00:21:54,600 --> 00:21:56,200
But, like, I don't know how
you've turned it around

486
00:21:56,320 --> 00:21:59,040
from that dinner party
to now, but hey,

487
00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:01,480
this could be the beginning of
a beautiful love story.

488
00:22:01,600 --> 00:22:03,760
Perplexed, but could
be the beginning of

489
00:22:03,880 --> 00:22:05,120
a beautiful love story.

490
00:22:05,800 --> 00:22:07,840
Like it feels completely different,
which was...

491
00:22:07,960 --> 00:22:09,400
- Natural?
- It feels natural.

492
00:22:09,520 --> 00:22:10,800
Good.
Good, good, good.

493
00:22:10,920 --> 00:22:12,200
I want it to feel natural.

494
00:22:12,320 --> 00:22:13,800
Feel great.
Oh, good, guys!

495
00:22:13,920 --> 00:22:14,800
Yes.

496
00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:17,680
It's puzzling to me how you
can go from really hating

497
00:22:17,800 --> 00:22:21,200
your husband at a dinner party
to completely flipping that round.

498
00:22:21,320 --> 00:22:24,080
However, if it's genuine,
more power to you.

499
00:22:24,200 --> 00:22:26,480
We're all here for love,
so might have been the kick up

500
00:22:26,600 --> 00:22:27,920
the butt she needed.

501
00:22:28,040 --> 00:22:29,040
You can't fake this.

502
00:22:29,160 --> 00:22:30,400
You can't fake it.

503
00:22:30,520 --> 00:22:32,000
You can't fake it.

504
00:22:32,120 --> 00:22:33,240
The bounce back of the century.

505
00:22:33,360 --> 00:22:34,280
This is exciting.

506
00:22:35,600 --> 00:22:36,600
Put your legs up.

507
00:22:37,520 --> 00:22:38,800
Don't send me flying, though.

508
00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:40,960
It's so peaceful now.

509
00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:43,280
You know, you can only hear
the birds singing.

510
00:22:43,400 --> 00:22:44,840
(DISTORTED GARBLING)

511
00:22:45,880 --> 00:22:47,400
I don't know
what that even is.

512
00:22:47,520 --> 00:22:49,600
Is that a kookaburra or a pigeon?

513
00:22:51,160 --> 00:22:52,240
Was it a pigeon?

514
00:22:52,360 --> 00:22:54,280
(BIRD CALL)

515
00:22:55,400 --> 00:22:58,840
As the sun sets on the first
day of the retreat, our couples

516
00:22:58,960 --> 00:23:01,840
are coming together for
the first night welcome.

517
00:23:03,040 --> 00:23:05,080
(ALL CHEERS)

518
00:23:10,320 --> 00:23:11,600
It's the first night.

519
00:23:11,720 --> 00:23:14,640
I am so excited to connect
with all the couples.

520
00:23:15,120 --> 00:23:17,040
It's like being close
to the real world.

521
00:23:18,400 --> 00:23:20,560
I wanted to share
an update in mine

522
00:23:20,680 --> 00:23:22,480
and Steven's relationship.

523
00:23:23,040 --> 00:23:23,960
(ALL EXCLAIM, CHEER)

524
00:23:24,080 --> 00:23:25,080
So...

525
00:23:25,200 --> 00:23:27,560
Um, I think you all know,
like, we've had

526
00:23:27,680 --> 00:23:29,360
obviously, our trying times.

527
00:23:29,480 --> 00:23:34,240
But last night,
our intimacy levels increased.

528
00:23:34,360 --> 00:23:37,160
(CHEERS)
While we have not banged yet,

529
00:23:37,640 --> 00:23:39,640
it's really exciting.

530
00:23:39,760 --> 00:23:41,920
And yeah, I just wanted to
share that with you all.

531
00:23:42,040 --> 00:23:43,000
(CHEERS)

532
00:23:43,120 --> 00:23:44,040
Cheers!

533
00:23:49,280 --> 00:23:51,800
I've been routing for
Rachel and Steven since day one,

534
00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,280
so I'm so, so happy
that they are taking their

535
00:23:54,400 --> 00:23:56,280
relationship to the next level.

536
00:23:56,400 --> 00:23:57,560
Rachel is so happy.

537
00:23:57,680 --> 00:24:00,280
Like, I feel like you guys
are on the right track.

538
00:24:00,400 --> 00:24:01,840
And I'm really happy
for you both.

539
00:24:01,960 --> 00:24:03,960
Oh, great. Thank you so much.
Cheers to that.

540
00:24:04,080 --> 00:24:05,000
Yeah!

541
00:24:05,840 --> 00:24:07,240
I've watched them go
through this journey,

542
00:24:07,360 --> 00:24:11,360
and they vulnerably sat down last
night and said, 'Hey, we're at this

543
00:24:11,480 --> 00:24:12,800
stage in our relationship.'

544
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:15,880
Me and Stephen, like,
we've just hit this really

545
00:24:16,000 --> 00:24:18,960
nice trajectory and I'm like,
I'm really excited about it.

546
00:24:19,080 --> 00:24:22,240
So obviously, that was
a huge milestone for Rachel

547
00:24:22,360 --> 00:24:24,040
to be intimate with Steve.

548
00:24:24,160 --> 00:24:27,240
And she is such a sensitive,
beautiful soul.

549
00:24:27,360 --> 00:24:28,560
I'm just really happy for them.

550
00:24:32,880 --> 00:24:34,960
There is so much love
in the air tonight.

551
00:24:35,080 --> 00:24:36,240
I feel like it's the country.

552
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:38,760
It brings people together.
It's good energy.

553
00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:40,520
It's good vibes. I love that.

554
00:24:41,040 --> 00:24:42,160
This is why I love the country.

555
00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,960
Hang on. Has anyone asked
how these two are going yet?

556
00:24:48,080 --> 00:24:49,480
Hey, Filip, Stella.

557
00:24:49,600 --> 00:24:51,880
We haven't heard from you
guys yet. What's going on?

558
00:24:52,000 --> 00:24:53,240
Filip!

559
00:24:53,360 --> 00:24:54,600
Has everyone heard the news?

560
00:24:54,720 --> 00:24:56,520
What news!

561
00:24:56,640 --> 00:24:58,200
So when we're on the couch,

562
00:24:58,320 --> 00:24:59,600
at the commitment ceremony,

563
00:24:59,720 --> 00:25:02,360
Alessandra was just saying,

564
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,680
'I don't get what's
going on with you guys.

565
00:25:03,800 --> 00:25:05,360
'You guys seem to keep
doing the dance,

566
00:25:05,480 --> 00:25:07,400
with your words'
and stuff like that.

567
00:25:07,880 --> 00:25:09,960
And I just said, uh, "I just
got something to tell you."

568
00:25:10,080 --> 00:25:15,880
I go, "I don't know how to say this,
but, uh, I love you."

569
00:25:16,000 --> 00:25:18,000
(CHEERS)

570
00:25:19,200 --> 00:25:20,560
Yeah!

571
00:25:21,400 --> 00:25:23,360
And you said it first.
Uh, I said it first.

572
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:25,320
Yes, yes!

573
00:25:25,440 --> 00:25:26,800
Stella, did you say it back?

574
00:25:26,920 --> 00:25:27,840
(CHEERS)

575
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:38,040
It's perfect.

576
00:25:38,160 --> 00:25:40,280
It's great.
It's great. It's time.

577
00:25:43,920 --> 00:25:45,960
It's all very nice.
It's a fun night tonight, guys.

578
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:47,280
Yeah, fun night. Yeah.

579
00:25:49,360 --> 00:25:51,040
BEC: I'm just so excited
that you finger banged.

580
00:25:57,160 --> 00:25:59,760
You know, the comment from
Bec is, it's just assuming,

581
00:25:59,880 --> 00:26:03,280
like, we never went into detail.
The comments,

582
00:26:03,400 --> 00:26:07,600
like we did that action
and it's, you know, it's just...

583
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:09,360
Yeah, it's just
a vulgar thing to say.

584
00:26:14,440 --> 00:26:15,680
Unless you want to share.

585
00:26:18,320 --> 00:26:20,280
BEC: Until tomorrow night!

586
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:23,480
Oh!

587
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:25,160
Yeah.

588
00:26:25,280 --> 00:26:26,560
That's just the classic.

589
00:26:27,880 --> 00:26:33,120
Bec has a very, like, I guess, like,
crude sense of humour.

590
00:26:33,240 --> 00:26:35,840
To be honest, like, I'd be a bit
like (SIGHS).

591
00:26:35,960 --> 00:26:37,600
Like, a little bit frustrated.

592
00:26:38,240 --> 00:26:40,240
BEC: Sam's like, 'I don't
want to hear about this.'

593
00:26:40,360 --> 00:26:41,920
SAM: I don't wanna
hear about heterosexual sex.

594
00:26:46,840 --> 00:26:49,360
It made me feel, I guess,
a little bit awkward.

595
00:26:49,480 --> 00:26:53,240
I'm not very,
you know, open about

596
00:26:53,360 --> 00:26:55,440
my, you know, sex life.

597
00:26:59,760 --> 00:27:04,680
Yeah. I feel a little bit awkward
around Bec.

598
00:27:04,800 --> 00:27:07,360
I felt awkward around Bec
since day one, really.

599
00:27:07,480 --> 00:27:10,400
Um, look, I don't like
the comments, but I,

600
00:27:10,520 --> 00:27:13,080
like I said, I feel like I'm...
Yeah.

601
00:27:15,480 --> 00:27:17,320
I feel like I should have,
could have just said to Bec,

602
00:27:18,360 --> 00:27:22,280
"Look, let's not say it
that way."

603
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:25,200
"Can we just be a bit more
respectful

604
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:26,440
and not say it like that?"

605
00:27:27,680 --> 00:27:30,200
It's just like...we progressed.

606
00:27:31,520 --> 00:27:32,840
Ladies and gentlemen!

607
00:27:36,880 --> 00:27:37,880
Right.

608
00:27:38,760 --> 00:27:40,680
Can I have you guys
over here, please?

609
00:27:43,880 --> 00:27:47,800
Guys, I wanted to just sort
of call us here tonight.

610
00:27:47,920 --> 00:27:52,400
It's the first night of retreat,
and we've had 'I love yous'...

611
00:27:52,520 --> 00:27:53,720
(CHEERS)

612
00:27:53,840 --> 00:27:57,040
We've had a couple that
I thought could not come

613
00:27:57,160 --> 00:27:59,120
back from the brink of hell.

614
00:27:59,240 --> 00:28:00,160
Bounce back!

615
00:28:01,720 --> 00:28:03,720
And we've had finger bangs,
so, like...

616
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:05,600
(LAUGHTER, CHEERS)

617
00:28:20,880 --> 00:28:22,760
(LAUGHTER, CHATTER)

618
00:28:25,120 --> 00:28:26,400
Ladies and gentlemen!

619
00:28:30,480 --> 00:28:31,480
Right.

620
00:28:32,360 --> 00:28:34,280
Can I have you guys
over here, please?

621
00:28:39,040 --> 00:28:43,040
Guys, I wanted to just sort
of call us here tonight.

622
00:28:43,160 --> 00:28:47,480
It's the first night of retreat,
and we've had 'I love yous.'

623
00:28:47,600 --> 00:28:49,240
(CHEERS)

624
00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:52,280
We've had a couple
that I thought could not

625
00:28:52,400 --> 00:28:55,200
come back from the brink of hell!
Bounce back!

626
00:28:56,920 --> 00:28:58,960
And we've had finger bangs,
so like...

627
00:28:59,080 --> 00:29:00,600
(LAUGHTER, CHEERS)

628
00:29:04,320 --> 00:29:05,320
Jeez.

629
00:29:06,480 --> 00:29:07,480
Shit!

630
00:29:11,840 --> 00:29:15,040
Anyway, guys, I just wanted
to say that I think

631
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:19,560
that this has been a great
night of retreat. Night one.

632
00:29:20,160 --> 00:29:21,160
Jesus.

633
00:29:22,720 --> 00:29:23,800
Are you OK?

634
00:29:23,920 --> 00:29:24,840
Not OK!

635
00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:29,280
I think we need to cheers
to new friendships

636
00:29:29,400 --> 00:29:31,680
and getting to know each other.

637
00:29:31,800 --> 00:29:33,520
Drink up and let's go to bed,
because tomorrow's a big day!

638
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,400
I didn't think it was funny.

639
00:29:44,840 --> 00:29:48,120
She turned something that
Steven and I were so excited

640
00:29:48,240 --> 00:29:51,800
about telling others about,
and where we're at, into a joke.

641
00:29:56,080 --> 00:30:01,440
I get why Rachel got offended,
because Bec, she speaks like that.

642
00:30:01,560 --> 00:30:04,160
It's just...I don't know.

643
00:30:05,120 --> 00:30:07,520
Is it necessary?
It's not.

644
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:14,360
You know, Rach is a sensitive girl,
and she opened up.

645
00:30:14,480 --> 00:30:17,440
And we know that she wouldn't
really appreciate that

646
00:30:17,560 --> 00:30:18,480
sort of sense of humour.

647
00:30:18,600 --> 00:30:21,840
So it doesn't really matter
how you mean to say something.

648
00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:25,160
If someone takes it a certain way
and doesn't take it the way

649
00:30:25,280 --> 00:30:26,960
that you intended by saying it,

650
00:30:27,080 --> 00:30:28,840
it deserves an apology.

651
00:30:29,360 --> 00:30:32,320
Bec, a quick apology
to Rach.

652
00:30:36,080 --> 00:30:38,280
Oh, Rach, I'm so sorry.
I apologise.

653
00:30:38,400 --> 00:30:40,000
RACHEL: Nah, it's all right.
Don't worry about it.

654
00:30:40,120 --> 00:30:41,440
Oh, it was meant
to be a bit of fun.

655
00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:44,120
Well, it's not funny.
Like, I shared with you guys openly

656
00:30:44,240 --> 00:30:46,840
that we took intimacy to
a new level, which is really

657
00:30:46,960 --> 00:30:48,400
important for Steve and I.

658
00:30:48,520 --> 00:30:49,720
And you just made a joke of it.

659
00:30:50,760 --> 00:30:52,400
No, I didn't
make a joke of it.

660
00:30:52,520 --> 00:30:54,840
Well, you did,
and everyone laughed.

661
00:30:57,120 --> 00:30:58,520
Sorry if I offended you.
It's not...

662
00:30:59,560 --> 00:31:01,800
It wasn't you guys
who made the joke of it.

663
00:31:01,920 --> 00:31:03,040
Becs made the joke.

664
00:31:03,160 --> 00:31:04,720
It's not a joke, darling.

665
00:31:04,840 --> 00:31:06,600
We all celebrate
you and your wins.

666
00:31:06,720 --> 00:31:08,360
And we've been
here through this.

667
00:31:08,480 --> 00:31:09,960
And I have been
here through this.

668
00:31:10,080 --> 00:31:13,320
You're very, very quick to turn.

669
00:31:15,360 --> 00:31:16,840
No, no, no...

670
00:31:16,960 --> 00:31:19,200
I think it was
inappropriate.

671
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:21,600
I'm with Rach.
It was inappropriate.

672
00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,040
I have been here.

673
00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:25,960
My husband has been here.
(OVERLAPPING ARGUING)

674
00:31:26,080 --> 00:31:27,720
You're very quick to turn.
It was not with malice at all.

675
00:31:27,840 --> 00:31:29,880
I'm not having this, Bec.

676
00:31:30,520 --> 00:31:32,560
In that moment, she could have,
like, come to me

677
00:31:32,680 --> 00:31:34,000
like, '(BLEEP) I'm really sorry.'

678
00:31:34,720 --> 00:31:36,400
But instead, she wanted
to turn around

679
00:31:36,520 --> 00:31:37,800
and make a fight out of it.

680
00:31:39,760 --> 00:31:41,160
Go fight in a mirror, sweetie.

681
00:31:41,280 --> 00:31:42,760
You're gonna get more joy.

682
00:31:42,880 --> 00:31:44,520
I'm not going to scream at you.

683
00:31:44,640 --> 00:31:47,640
I've every right to sit there
and say that was not OK.

684
00:31:48,160 --> 00:31:50,640
You just made a joke
of my relationship.

685
00:31:50,760 --> 00:31:52,520
We're here celebrating you.

686
00:31:52,640 --> 00:31:55,000
It wasn't...in that moment,

687
00:31:55,120 --> 00:31:56,880
it did not feel
like a celebration.

688
00:31:57,000 --> 00:31:58,480
I apologise, it never meant to...

689
00:31:58,600 --> 00:32:00,400
We celebrate you all the time.

690
00:32:00,520 --> 00:32:01,880
That's what we're doing.

691
00:32:02,000 --> 00:32:02,880
Please stop talking!

692
00:32:03,000 --> 00:32:04,320
Jesus Christ.

693
00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:05,800
Rach, Rach, Rach...
Yeah.

694
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:07,400
Anyway,
I'm done with tonight.

695
00:32:08,080 --> 00:32:10,040
Yeah. Thanks, guys.
Have a good night.

696
00:32:11,080 --> 00:32:14,000
BEC: I mean, whose husband
helped him get there? Mine.

697
00:32:15,160 --> 00:32:17,960
How do you think he got to this
point? My husband going out

698
00:32:18,080 --> 00:32:19,400
for beers with him. Yeah!

699
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,800
Get over it!

700
00:32:25,920 --> 00:32:27,560
She needs to calm down.

701
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:30,400
She pops off so quickly.
I'm over it.

702
00:32:31,360 --> 00:32:33,200
Look at her going nuts.

703
00:32:33,320 --> 00:32:35,320
She's going off her head
nuts right now.

704
00:32:35,920 --> 00:32:39,280
When Bec said that, I felt
really hurt and disappointed.

705
00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:44,280
It felt vulgar.

706
00:32:44,400 --> 00:32:45,720
And it felt just like...

707
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:47,680
I just felt like
a piece of shit.

708
00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:04,160
I was so excited for a retreat.

709
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,280
I just don't even want to
be around here anymore.

710
00:33:09,760 --> 00:33:12,800
It just made me feel like
a piece of shit all over again.

711
00:33:12,920 --> 00:33:15,440
I just...
Don't feel that way, please.

712
00:33:17,160 --> 00:33:19,800
We've worked so hard.

713
00:33:20,720 --> 00:33:23,200
We've worked so hard
in our relationship,

714
00:33:23,320 --> 00:33:26,240
and we're on this amazing
trajectory.

715
00:33:26,360 --> 00:33:29,080
And I was so excited to
share it with everyone.

716
00:33:29,200 --> 00:33:32,240
I just didn't expect that
someone would just stand up there

717
00:33:32,360 --> 00:33:33,760
and cheapen it.

718
00:33:36,240 --> 00:33:37,440
She needs to relax.

719
00:33:37,560 --> 00:33:38,600
Jesus Christ.

720
00:33:40,120 --> 00:33:41,200
She's sensitive to it.

721
00:33:42,280 --> 00:33:44,760
She'll move on...
We're celebrating her!

722
00:33:44,880 --> 00:33:46,240
Don't push anything
more onto it.

723
00:33:46,360 --> 00:33:48,600
D'you know what I mean?
It's just like... Oh.

724
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:49,760
She's sensitive to it.

725
00:33:49,880 --> 00:33:53,280
Honestly, she... She's just really
hard work sometimes.

726
00:33:53,840 --> 00:33:55,800
Oh, god.
She's going off her head.

727
00:33:56,880 --> 00:33:58,640
She's going absolutely
off her head right now.

728
00:33:58,760 --> 00:33:59,800
Look at her in there.

729
00:33:59,920 --> 00:34:01,640
She's going off
her head in there.

730
00:34:02,200 --> 00:34:05,000
I have supported her all night.

731
00:34:05,120 --> 00:34:07,360
I've supported... My husband
is the one sitting with

732
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:09,880
her husband every night,
encouraging him to do it!

733
00:34:13,800 --> 00:34:14,960
I shouldn't laugh.

734
00:34:15,080 --> 00:34:16,280
She's really upset.

735
00:34:18,440 --> 00:34:21,640
I'm...I shouldn't laugh,
but, like,

736
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,200
what planet am I on right now?

737
00:34:23,320 --> 00:34:24,720
Like, I understand, OK,

738
00:34:24,840 --> 00:34:25,760
your feelings are valid.

739
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,160
You don't want me to make
a joke of it. I'm not.

740
00:34:28,280 --> 00:34:30,400
My husband is the one that's
encouraged your husband

741
00:34:30,520 --> 00:34:31,560
to finger bang you, darling.

742
00:34:31,680 --> 00:34:34,680
OK, so let's just calm down.

743
00:34:34,800 --> 00:34:36,520
I'm going to get a t-shirt
with 'finger bang' across it.

744
00:34:36,640 --> 00:34:38,440
I'm gonna wear it
everywhere, like (BLEEP) me.

745
00:34:38,560 --> 00:34:39,680
Who would have known?

746
00:34:39,800 --> 00:34:41,720
But I can't be bothered
with it. Like...

747
00:34:46,680 --> 00:34:47,720
I'm so happy,

748
00:34:47,840 --> 00:34:51,160
finally you've got some,
you know, I'm celebrating you.

749
00:34:59,720 --> 00:35:00,720
(BLEEP).

750
00:35:09,000 --> 00:35:10,680
OK, well, we'll, we'll talk.

751
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:14,240
We'll talk to Bec and we're
going to get through it. OK?

752
00:35:22,840 --> 00:35:26,280
NARRATOR: After last night's
welcome drinks ended in emotion,

753
00:35:26,400 --> 00:35:30,600
Steven is supporting Rachel,
as she tries to understand why Bec

754
00:35:30,720 --> 00:35:32,840
made a joke of their intimacy.

755
00:35:32,960 --> 00:35:36,160
My personal opinion was
I found Bec's comment

756
00:35:36,280 --> 00:35:39,720
just, look, it's just
disrespectful and vulgar.

757
00:35:40,280 --> 00:35:44,800
Um, I don't know if I believe
she was intentionally trying

758
00:35:44,920 --> 00:35:45,800
to hurt us.

759
00:35:45,920 --> 00:35:48,320
I just think it was a very
bad choice of words

760
00:35:48,440 --> 00:35:50,680
and it was disrespectful.

761
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:53,720
She could have just said,
"I'm happy for, you know,

762
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:56,400
"Rachel and Steve and that
they've increased

763
00:35:56,520 --> 00:36:00,240
their intimacy over the weekend
and I'm very happy for them."

764
00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,560
Well, it was a big thing for
us to share, like we're being

765
00:36:02,680 --> 00:36:03,960
vulnerable with the group.

766
00:36:04,080 --> 00:36:05,840
We she shared it
as a celebration.

767
00:36:06,360 --> 00:36:09,040
And while she didn't do
it with malice,

768
00:36:09,160 --> 00:36:11,600
we were a punchline in a joke.

769
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,840
If Steven and I were standing
there speaking about our

770
00:36:18,960 --> 00:36:23,800
relationship in front of
everyone in that way, go for it.

771
00:36:23,920 --> 00:36:25,360
But we weren't.

772
00:36:25,480 --> 00:36:28,160
It made me humiliated to
being vulnerable with

773
00:36:28,280 --> 00:36:31,560
the group and sharing what
I thought was exciting news.

774
00:36:33,280 --> 00:36:35,360
Yeah, more than happy to
hear what Bec's got to say,

775
00:36:35,480 --> 00:36:37,760
but Bec's also got to
hear what I've got to say,

776
00:36:37,880 --> 00:36:40,280
and she's actually got to
listen and understand and put

777
00:36:40,400 --> 00:36:42,600
herself in my shoes.
When people have said things to

778
00:36:42,720 --> 00:36:44,000
her about her relationship,

779
00:36:44,120 --> 00:36:46,720
and I understand it's completely
different than what was said,

780
00:36:46,840 --> 00:36:48,640
she gets quite upset.
And that's OK.

781
00:36:49,120 --> 00:36:51,720
Last night, I got upset
and the first thing

782
00:36:51,840 --> 00:36:54,200
she wanted to do was turn
and try and fight me.

783
00:36:54,720 --> 00:36:58,480
I would never stand up in front
of a group, ever, and do that,

784
00:36:58,600 --> 00:37:02,320
because if I did that to her
and Danny, I'd be six feet under

785
00:37:02,440 --> 00:37:04,440
and you wouldn't find the body.

786
00:37:05,120 --> 00:37:06,960
I regret telling the group.

787
00:37:07,760 --> 00:37:10,600
I regret celebrating
something in my relationship.

788
00:37:13,120 --> 00:37:14,200
Oh, morning!

789
00:37:14,320 --> 00:37:15,240
Morning.

790
00:37:16,200 --> 00:37:17,160
How are we?

791
00:37:17,280 --> 00:37:18,840
I'm good. How are you?

792
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:20,360
Good, thanks.

793
00:37:20,480 --> 00:37:21,520
Slept so good last night.

794
00:37:21,640 --> 00:37:22,600
So well.

795
00:37:22,720 --> 00:37:25,000
You sleep good in
the country, don't you?

796
00:37:25,120 --> 00:37:26,080
Yeah, it's beautiful.

797
00:37:26,680 --> 00:37:28,360
How funny was last night, babe?

798
00:37:28,480 --> 00:37:29,600
Funny night.

799
00:37:29,720 --> 00:37:31,360
Oh my god,
full blown meltdown.

800
00:37:31,880 --> 00:37:34,480
Um, yeah. Obviously there's
a little bit of drama now

801
00:37:34,600 --> 00:37:36,360
that drama involves me,
unfortunately.

802
00:37:36,880 --> 00:37:40,600
Hopefully she can maybe just move,
move past it.

803
00:37:41,080 --> 00:37:42,080
You need to calm down.

804
00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:44,920
It was said as a joke, in jest.

805
00:37:45,400 --> 00:37:47,120
I'm a woman.
We do that.

806
00:37:49,280 --> 00:37:51,000
Oh, what a beautiful day.

807
00:37:52,240 --> 00:37:55,200
It's like, get a personality,
will you? (BLEEP) hell.

808
00:37:59,080 --> 00:38:00,080
Ah!

809
00:38:01,880 --> 00:38:02,880
(GRUNTING)

810
00:38:06,200 --> 00:38:09,400
Go ten, go ten.
You do ten? Yep.

811
00:38:09,520 --> 00:38:10,440
Great work, brother.

812
00:38:12,640 --> 00:38:14,040
I'm gonna perv.

813
00:38:14,160 --> 00:38:15,040
Shirts off, guys!

814
00:38:15,160 --> 00:38:16,080
Shirts off!

815
00:38:18,640 --> 00:38:20,360
Yeah, baby! Come on, you two.

816
00:38:20,480 --> 00:38:23,200
Chop-chop, chop-chop!

817
00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:24,520
Last one, guys. Last one.

818
00:38:29,400 --> 00:38:30,760
(INDISTINCT CHATTER)

819
00:38:31,840 --> 00:38:32,840
Come on!

820
00:38:39,360 --> 00:38:40,800
Just the shirts
need to come off.

821
00:38:45,720 --> 00:38:47,440
NARRATOR:
After an emotional night,

822
00:38:47,560 --> 00:38:50,440
Rachel and Steven
have taken some time away

823
00:38:50,560 --> 00:38:51,960
from the group to reconnect.

824
00:38:53,000 --> 00:38:55,960
Oh, I can see Rachel
and Steven having a little

825
00:38:56,080 --> 00:38:57,360
chit chat over there.

826
00:38:59,040 --> 00:39:00,800
Maybe something really bad's
actually happened,

827
00:39:00,920 --> 00:39:02,280
because she's walking around
really upset.

828
00:39:04,600 --> 00:39:07,880
Maybe she didn't get enough
attention from the announcement

829
00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:09,040
that she made.

830
00:39:09,160 --> 00:39:11,360
And then when I said it,
it was like, 'Oh, ding ding ding,

831
00:39:11,480 --> 00:39:14,560
'here's my chance to
get angry at someone.

832
00:39:14,680 --> 00:39:16,600
'And now everyone's going
to be talking about me.'

833
00:39:16,720 --> 00:39:17,640
And there's the attention.

834
00:39:18,960 --> 00:39:21,400
You can't walk around
like this all day. Like...

835
00:39:22,720 --> 00:39:25,360
Like... The joke has been
amplified that much

836
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,440
that it's actually affecting
their relationship.

837
00:39:28,560 --> 00:39:30,600
Do you think Steveo
wants to be down there

838
00:39:30,720 --> 00:39:31,800
trying to cheer her up?

839
00:39:31,920 --> 00:39:35,120
Because he's finger banged her?
Like, (BLEEP) me.

840
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,640
It should have...
It should have made her happier.

841
00:39:39,200 --> 00:39:40,560
It's made her sadder.

842
00:39:40,680 --> 00:39:42,360
He's probably thinking,
'(BLEEP) that, I'm not gonna

843
00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:43,760
finger blast her ever again.'

844
00:39:44,360 --> 00:39:45,640
'I can't take the risk.'

845
00:39:48,000 --> 00:39:50,360
Nothing bad actually happened.
It's a good thing.

846
00:39:50,480 --> 00:39:51,400
It's a great thing.

847
00:39:52,200 --> 00:39:55,400
There was a joke. There was
a joke made about a good thing.

848
00:39:55,520 --> 00:39:57,400
Yeah, a good thing.
We just need to move forward.

849
00:39:57,520 --> 00:40:00,120
It's going to live on...
Forever.

850
00:40:01,720 --> 00:40:03,120
It's just, I don't know.

851
00:40:03,240 --> 00:40:04,600
I'm gonna get merch.
I'm gonna get,

852
00:40:04,720 --> 00:40:06,440
I'm gonna get caps and t-shirts.

853
00:40:10,480 --> 00:40:11,720
Anywho. Merch coming.

854
00:40:12,920 --> 00:40:14,080
I didn't really do
anything wrong.

855
00:40:14,200 --> 00:40:18,320
Like, everyone knows that I did
not mean that with malice.

856
00:40:18,440 --> 00:40:20,600
And then all of a sudden,
it's World War Three.

857
00:40:20,720 --> 00:40:21,720
Like, what is going on?

858
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:25,640
I don't understand.
Merch coming February 2026.

859
00:40:28,680 --> 00:40:30,200
Oh my god!

860
00:40:30,320 --> 00:40:32,000
Sam?

861
00:40:43,080 --> 00:40:45,040
(BLEEP) off, bad juju.
Calm down.

862
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:46,760
Calm your farm,
brother.

863
00:40:54,080 --> 00:40:56,400
I think some girls can
just be a lost cause.

864
00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:00,400
The shit talking she was doing
about Rach on the sunbeds,

865
00:41:00,960 --> 00:41:03,680
she's already been making
jokes about putting that

866
00:41:03,800 --> 00:41:06,080
tagline on a t-shirt
and selling it as merch.

867
00:41:06,600 --> 00:41:08,400
All of it was so unacceptable.

868
00:41:09,160 --> 00:41:10,800
This is very Bec behaviour.

869
00:41:10,920 --> 00:41:13,480
Um, she kept going on about
these disgusting comments

870
00:41:13,600 --> 00:41:15,000
and making merch for it.

871
00:41:15,120 --> 00:41:16,320
It wasn't nice.

872
00:41:19,600 --> 00:41:22,120
BEC:
I'm literally doing it....

873
00:41:24,960 --> 00:41:26,560
Bec is not someone
I would be friends with

874
00:41:26,680 --> 00:41:27,720
in the outside world.

875
00:41:27,840 --> 00:41:30,280
Um, I feel like I have
a lot of empathy for her.

876
00:41:30,400 --> 00:41:34,120
She tries a lot, but she
just keeps mucking it up

877
00:41:34,240 --> 00:41:36,560
by just thinking about herself.

878
00:41:36,680 --> 00:41:37,920
It's really quite selfish.

879
00:41:38,560 --> 00:41:41,880
It will be interesting to
see how the whole Bec and Rach

880
00:41:42,000 --> 00:41:45,000
situation develops,
hopefully comes to an end,

881
00:41:45,120 --> 00:41:47,200
but you definitely never know.

882
00:41:47,920 --> 00:41:49,240
Coming up...

883
00:41:49,360 --> 00:41:51,280
It was disrespectful.
It was disgusting.

884
00:41:52,000 --> 00:41:53,640
You know what? It was, it was...
It was a joke.

885
00:41:54,480 --> 00:41:57,920
How will Bec respond to
questions from the group?

886
00:41:58,040 --> 00:42:01,040
But when are you going to be
accountable for repeated behaviour?

887
00:42:08,880 --> 00:42:11,040
NARRATOR: It's the Married
at First Sight retreat

888
00:42:11,160 --> 00:42:14,800
on the New South Wales south coast,
and our couples are getting ready

889
00:42:14,920 --> 00:42:16,800
for their boys' and girls' nights.

890
00:42:21,200 --> 00:42:24,720
And Joel is embracing
Mother Nature to ensure

891
00:42:24,840 --> 00:42:27,040
all areas are well maintained.

892
00:42:27,160 --> 00:42:28,080
And we're done.

893
00:42:29,320 --> 00:42:30,320
Woo!

894
00:42:31,560 --> 00:42:32,560
Nice and groomed.

895
00:42:33,400 --> 00:42:36,720
A social event separating
our couples is an integral

896
00:42:36,840 --> 00:42:38,160
part of this retreat.

897
00:42:38,880 --> 00:42:41,360
It allows them to speak
freely with their peers

898
00:42:41,480 --> 00:42:44,360
and gain some outside advice
for their relationships.

899
00:42:45,680 --> 00:42:47,680
Girls and boys night.
Yeah, I know.

900
00:42:47,800 --> 00:42:48,680
You've chosen the girls.

901
00:42:48,800 --> 00:42:50,680
I've been stolen away
to the girls for the night.

902
00:42:51,280 --> 00:42:52,480
I am excited for tonight.

903
00:42:52,600 --> 00:42:54,000
Hanging out with the boys.

904
00:42:54,120 --> 00:42:56,320
Whatever happened last night
between Rachel and Bec,

905
00:42:56,440 --> 00:42:57,680
do you think that that's...

906
00:42:57,800 --> 00:42:59,680
Is that still a thing?
Is that something that's going

907
00:42:59,800 --> 00:43:01,000
to be spoken about tonight?

908
00:43:01,120 --> 00:43:02,480
It's definitely going
to be spoken. OK.

909
00:43:03,520 --> 00:43:05,640
Because they haven't
spoken today all day.

910
00:43:06,520 --> 00:43:08,480
They've been quite frosty
with each other.

911
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:10,920
But Bec's been pretty good
with you today, hasn't she?

912
00:43:11,040 --> 00:43:13,920
She has had like a few
comments again about how

913
00:43:14,040 --> 00:43:15,680
she wanted to make merch.

914
00:43:15,800 --> 00:43:16,680
Merch?

915
00:43:16,800 --> 00:43:18,760
Yeah. She said she
wanted to make merch.

916
00:43:18,880 --> 00:43:20,560
I think she's just joking, though.
Like she's not actually

917
00:43:20,680 --> 00:43:21,560
gonna make merch, you know?

918
00:43:21,680 --> 00:43:23,960
But it's also just like,
why are we still talking

919
00:43:24,080 --> 00:43:26,680
about this when we obviously
know Rachel's so upset?

920
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,080
Yeah.

921
00:43:28,200 --> 00:43:32,080
I'm wondering if Bec's
going to apologise to Rachel.

922
00:43:32,200 --> 00:43:33,200
I think she should.

923
00:43:33,320 --> 00:43:34,840
How many times is she
going to keep saying sorry

924
00:43:34,960 --> 00:43:36,560
and then doing the same
thing again to everybody?

925
00:43:36,680 --> 00:43:38,360
So like, I think
people are over it.

926
00:43:38,480 --> 00:43:39,640
I think people are too.

927
00:43:39,760 --> 00:43:40,680
Yeah.

928
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:44,200
I'm a little bit nervous
going into girls' night.

929
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,120
We obviously still have
the hangover of last night

930
00:43:47,240 --> 00:43:48,640
between myself and Bec.

931
00:43:49,960 --> 00:43:52,400
I think what I really
need to see from Bec

932
00:43:52,520 --> 00:43:54,160
tonight is, like, empathy.

933
00:43:54,280 --> 00:43:56,560
Like, help me understand that
you understand.

934
00:43:57,280 --> 00:43:59,720
Standing up for myself,
for some reason, is hard.

935
00:44:02,560 --> 00:44:04,120
Oh, this is cute!

936
00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:06,720
I'm excited for girls' night.

937
00:44:06,840 --> 00:44:08,960
I think it's going
to be a fun night.

938
00:44:09,080 --> 00:44:11,680
And I think everyone seems to
be in a pretty good place,

939
00:44:11,800 --> 00:44:14,080
so I don't know if there's going
to be any argy bargy.

940
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:16,320
Woo!

941
00:44:16,440 --> 00:44:18,960
I feel like Rachel has put a bit of
a cloud over the day.

942
00:44:19,080 --> 00:44:23,440
Like, I'm perplexed as to how
it has affected her so much.

943
00:44:24,520 --> 00:44:25,640
It's very weird to me.

944
00:44:29,240 --> 00:44:31,240
(CHEERS, INDISTINCT CHATTER)

945
00:44:32,600 --> 00:44:33,600
Hello, baby.

946
00:44:35,400 --> 00:44:36,760
Girl.

947
00:44:36,880 --> 00:44:39,560
(CHEERS)
Cheers, guys.

948
00:44:39,680 --> 00:44:40,920
And thanks for having me.

949
00:44:44,080 --> 00:44:45,080
Cheers.

950
00:44:45,840 --> 00:44:47,840
(ALL CHEERS)

951
00:44:49,280 --> 00:44:51,080
And so, what's the goss?
How is everyone else's

952
00:44:51,200 --> 00:44:52,280
relationships going?

953
00:44:52,400 --> 00:44:53,680
Good. Um...
Double Js.

954
00:44:54,160 --> 00:44:56,480
I know, the double Js,
which I love.

955
00:44:56,600 --> 00:45:01,400
I love JJ. Honestly, like,
I'm so shocked at the turnaround

956
00:45:01,520 --> 00:45:04,040
about our emotional connection.

957
00:45:04,160 --> 00:45:07,240
I've only shared a bed
with Joel once since starting

958
00:45:07,360 --> 00:45:10,840
the experiment, so last night
was the second time.

959
00:45:10,960 --> 00:45:12,360
(IMITATES BORAT) Very nice!

960
00:45:14,720 --> 00:45:16,400
Vibe check with Juliette.

961
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:17,440
Vibe is good.

962
00:45:17,560 --> 00:45:19,240
Juliette and I had some
romance last night.

963
00:45:19,360 --> 00:45:20,440
We shared some kisses.

964
00:45:20,560 --> 00:45:21,720
Yeah, I was
excited when I saw...

965
00:45:21,840 --> 00:45:24,160
When I saw him in his get up
tonight and the clean shave,

966
00:45:24,280 --> 00:45:26,600
and I was like,
hotty-patotty, that guy.

967
00:45:26,720 --> 00:45:27,640
(CHEERS)

968
00:45:28,160 --> 00:45:29,240
Cheers to that!

969
00:45:30,960 --> 00:45:32,800
Cheers to that.
Cheers.

970
00:45:32,920 --> 00:45:33,800
Cheers.

971
00:45:33,920 --> 00:45:35,760
Let's celebrate.
Stella and Filip.

972
00:45:35,880 --> 00:45:37,880
Where we are with Filip,
um,

973
00:45:38,000 --> 00:45:39,520
it was obvious,
obviously, how we are.

974
00:45:39,640 --> 00:45:41,880
Like, we're obsessed with each
other. We're so affectionate.

975
00:45:42,000 --> 00:45:44,080
We do plan our future together.

976
00:45:44,200 --> 00:45:46,360
When we started to have
those chats, it kind of all

977
00:45:46,480 --> 00:45:47,440
got very, very serious.

978
00:45:47,560 --> 00:45:51,120
And, um, falling in love, I...

979
00:45:51,240 --> 00:45:54,400
As I realised, when it's the right
person and when I think

980
00:45:54,520 --> 00:45:56,080
you're ready, it's not that hard.

981
00:45:56,200 --> 00:45:58,760
What comes after
that's becoming hard.

982
00:46:00,080 --> 00:46:01,200
Uh... Oh, god.

983
00:46:01,320 --> 00:46:02,400
I feel like I'm gonna cry.

984
00:46:02,520 --> 00:46:03,520
Aw!

985
00:46:05,360 --> 00:46:08,040
Because the way I look at him,
I do want him to

986
00:46:08,160 --> 00:46:09,440
be my forever partner.

987
00:46:09,560 --> 00:46:12,640
And I do really want to work on
those things to that level.

988
00:46:12,760 --> 00:46:15,240
But it's so
much more deeper.

989
00:46:15,360 --> 00:46:16,880
And that's what I'm
dealing right now.

990
00:46:17,000 --> 00:46:19,040
Fear of rejection,
not rejection, abandonment.

991
00:46:19,520 --> 00:46:20,880
So I'm dealing with
that right now.

992
00:46:21,000 --> 00:46:22,360
So...
Hey...

993
00:46:23,960 --> 00:46:25,880
My parents had
me extremely young.

994
00:46:26,400 --> 00:46:29,040
My dad then left to live in UK.

995
00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:33,520
Um, my role models
and people who raised me

996
00:46:33,640 --> 00:46:35,960
is my grandmother and my auntie.

997
00:46:36,760 --> 00:46:42,000
Growing up in Lithuania
shaped me to be quite independent.

998
00:46:42,120 --> 00:46:46,000
Even though that I know
I'm craving connection,

999
00:46:46,120 --> 00:46:47,520
like I know I'm
craving connection,

1000
00:46:47,640 --> 00:46:48,960
that's, mm...

1001
00:46:52,720 --> 00:46:53,920
That's me getting teary.

1002
00:46:57,480 --> 00:47:00,920
You just realise that it's
a self protection. Preservation.

1003
00:47:01,040 --> 00:47:05,240
Um, initially I wanted to kind
of distance myself, um, and I was

1004
00:47:05,360 --> 00:47:09,680
like, why do I want to distance
myself from this human?

1005
00:47:09,800 --> 00:47:11,840
He's such a beautiful human.
Yeah.

1006
00:47:21,760 --> 00:47:23,560
That is the only reason
why it's coming up.

1007
00:47:23,680 --> 00:47:26,920
Because it is getting serious,
and that is a coping

1008
00:47:27,040 --> 00:47:30,480
mechanism for me to, um,
maybe stay in a protective mode

1009
00:47:30,600 --> 00:47:34,400
of not getting hurt if, you know,
people decide to leave.

1010
00:47:34,520 --> 00:47:37,840
Um, yeah, that's I guess,
my trauma response.

1011
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:43,280
So, yeah, it's a lot more
than just oh yeah,

1012
00:47:43,400 --> 00:47:45,800
I'm in love, you know?
Yeah.

1013
00:47:45,920 --> 00:47:47,240
Thanks for sharing.

1014
00:47:47,360 --> 00:47:49,680
I didn't expect to cry,
to be honest.

1015
00:47:50,200 --> 00:47:52,000
I want to give you a hug!
(OVERLAPPING CHATTER)

1016
00:47:52,120 --> 00:47:55,040
I'm a crier, but when
it hits, it (BLEEP) hits.

1017
00:47:55,160 --> 00:47:56,240
Needed it babe.

1018
00:47:56,360 --> 00:47:57,280
We love you.

1019
00:48:02,120 --> 00:48:05,280
So Steven and I are
really good.

1020
00:48:05,400 --> 00:48:08,800
As I shared with you all last night,
the intimacy with Steven

1021
00:48:08,920 --> 00:48:12,040
and I has increased,
which is really, really exciting.

1022
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,160
And even though, you know, last
night ended the way that it did,

1023
00:48:15,280 --> 00:48:18,040
it's actually brought Steve
and I a lot closer as well.

1024
00:48:18,160 --> 00:48:20,000
That tends to happen.

1025
00:48:20,120 --> 00:48:23,160
He really had me and, like,
he could see how

1026
00:48:23,280 --> 00:48:26,720
upset I was and just being able
to calm and support me.

1027
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:29,600
And even though I was, like,
breaking down,

1028
00:48:29,720 --> 00:48:32,600
he just, he had me and I just,
I really appreciated that

1029
00:48:32,720 --> 00:48:35,720
in a partner and like,
you know, going to bed

1030
00:48:35,840 --> 00:48:37,320
and, like, getting really worked up,

1031
00:48:37,440 --> 00:48:40,400
he's like, "Sweetie," like he's
holding my hand

1032
00:48:40,520 --> 00:48:43,160
and he's just like,
"Rach, I just need you to breathe.

1033
00:48:43,280 --> 00:48:44,680
Just breathe for me."

1034
00:48:44,800 --> 00:48:48,840
In that moment, I feel like
coming here has really

1035
00:48:48,960 --> 00:48:53,080
helped me value those small
moments with Steven.

1036
00:48:54,040 --> 00:48:58,800
She's, she's been hysterical,
been the same way all day today.

1037
00:48:58,920 --> 00:49:00,720
And it's like,
what are you on about?

1038
00:49:01,480 --> 00:49:02,480
Ugh.

1039
00:49:04,560 --> 00:49:07,000
Everything's
really, really good.

1040
00:49:07,120 --> 00:49:08,800
So I'm very happy.

1041
00:49:08,920 --> 00:49:10,520
Steven makes me
really, really happy.

1042
00:49:10,640 --> 00:49:11,960
We're so happy.

1043
00:49:12,080 --> 00:49:14,280
And like, and silver lining
that last night has brought

1044
00:49:14,400 --> 00:49:16,360
you guys closer together.
That's really lovely.

1045
00:49:16,480 --> 00:49:18,360
That's definitely
the silver lining of it.

1046
00:49:18,480 --> 00:49:21,360
Um, while last night should
not have happened at all,

1047
00:49:21,480 --> 00:49:24,800
it is a silver lining,
and I do appreciate that.

1048
00:49:24,920 --> 00:49:27,240
I have an amazing husband
who was able to support me.

1049
00:49:28,600 --> 00:49:29,720
Give it a rest.

1050
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:31,360
Relax, man.

1051
00:49:31,480 --> 00:49:33,000
Get a personality.

1052
00:49:33,600 --> 00:49:34,920
She's hard work.

1053
00:49:35,040 --> 00:49:37,040
Rachel is hard work
to be friends with.

1054
00:49:37,160 --> 00:49:39,440
Like, aren't you happy I even
mentioned you in my speech?

1055
00:49:39,560 --> 00:49:41,880
Appreciate it.
Thank you. Cheers, guys.

1056
00:49:42,000 --> 00:49:43,320
Appreciate it so much.

1057
00:49:46,200 --> 00:49:48,560
I'm going to apologise. She's going
to go "wah-wah-wah-wah..."

1058
00:49:48,680 --> 00:49:50,720
And I'm going to go,
"No worries."

1059
00:49:50,840 --> 00:49:51,920
Hug her out and be done.

1060
00:49:52,040 --> 00:49:53,960
Like, I'm honestly, I'm over it.

1061
00:49:55,000 --> 00:49:57,480
Yeah. Just, I wish I cared more,
to be honest with you.

1062
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,200
NARRATOR: Girls' night
and boys' night is well underway,

1063
00:50:06,320 --> 00:50:08,560
and the dramatic end to last night's
welcome drinks

1064
00:50:08,680 --> 00:50:11,280
is on everyone's mind.

1065
00:50:11,400 --> 00:50:14,680
Steve, how did you feel
about Bec's comment yesterday?

1066
00:50:14,800 --> 00:50:16,360
How did that sit with you?

1067
00:50:16,480 --> 00:50:19,720
Yeah. So, uh, with Bec's
comment last night, I was...

1068
00:50:19,840 --> 00:50:23,120
Everyone saw it
really upset Rachel.

1069
00:50:23,240 --> 00:50:25,080
Yeah.
Like, severely.

1070
00:50:25,800 --> 00:50:28,600
And what made the situation
worse was not just

1071
00:50:28,720 --> 00:50:29,800
the comment, it's just...

1072
00:50:29,920 --> 00:50:33,880
I think the reaction of Bec
really upset Rachel.

1073
00:50:34,000 --> 00:50:36,200
So do you think she's blown it
a bit out of proportion?

1074
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:39,480
Not to put words in your mouth.

1075
00:50:39,600 --> 00:50:41,080
I'm just genuinely asking.

1076
00:50:41,200 --> 00:50:43,760
Personally, personally,
I didn't think she'd be

1077
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:45,280
that upset, to be honest.

1078
00:50:45,400 --> 00:50:46,960
Like, I understand the walking...

1079
00:50:47,080 --> 00:50:48,560
I understand the walking out
because it's in

1080
00:50:48,680 --> 00:50:49,560
the heat of the moment.

1081
00:50:49,680 --> 00:50:51,120
I really want to get an answer.
Do you think she's

1082
00:50:51,240 --> 00:50:53,280
blown it out of proportion or not?
Yes or no?

1083
00:50:53,400 --> 00:50:56,240
I don't think she did,
because this means

1084
00:50:56,360 --> 00:50:57,760
so much to Rachel.

1085
00:50:57,880 --> 00:51:01,360
And speaking to the group
and getting the feedback

1086
00:51:01,480 --> 00:51:02,440
from the girls,

1087
00:51:02,560 --> 00:51:06,560
you guys, this progress
means a lot to Rachel.

1088
00:51:07,760 --> 00:51:10,960
I did need to stress to the boys
that Rachel was

1089
00:51:11,080 --> 00:51:14,600
really upset by this,
and this was special for her.

1090
00:51:14,720 --> 00:51:17,960
It doesn't matter what you think
about it, she's upset by it.

1091
00:51:18,080 --> 00:51:19,200
You've got to take
that on board.

1092
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:21,400
It's not about...
you're the spectator.

1093
00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:25,840
This was aimed at her, so they
need to understand that as well.

1094
00:51:25,960 --> 00:51:28,560
Steve-o,
did you find it funny?

1095
00:51:28,680 --> 00:51:29,680
Be honest, be honest.

1096
00:51:31,280 --> 00:51:35,800
Look, I know that Bec
didn't have ill intentions.

1097
00:51:35,920 --> 00:51:38,120
She wasn't attacking
the relationship.

1098
00:51:38,240 --> 00:51:41,640
I believe it was just a case
of really poor judgement.

1099
00:51:41,760 --> 00:51:43,880
Poor choice of words,
probably looking for

1100
00:51:44,000 --> 00:51:45,200
a little bit of a laugh.

1101
00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:46,280
You didn't answer
the question.

1102
00:51:46,400 --> 00:51:49,200
Did you personally find it funny
or how did you find it?

1103
00:51:51,680 --> 00:51:55,440
I didn't, look, I didn't find...
Me, man, I didn't find it...

1104
00:51:56,360 --> 00:51:57,400
I didn't find it funny.

1105
00:51:57,520 --> 00:51:59,960
Like, it's just, it's just a,
you know, poor comment.

1106
00:52:00,920 --> 00:52:03,200
I just wanted to get your
opinion on it because that's

1107
00:52:03,320 --> 00:52:05,600
sort of the common theme
with Rachel, that she blows

1108
00:52:05,720 --> 00:52:06,840
things out of proportion.

1109
00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:16,640
So Rach, I wanted to obviously
address, like, I think we should

1110
00:52:16,760 --> 00:52:17,640
start off with you,

1111
00:52:17,760 --> 00:52:21,280
tell me how you feel, like,
towards me about it, talk to me.

1112
00:52:22,160 --> 00:52:24,720
Bec, you humiliated me
in front of the group last night.

1113
00:52:24,840 --> 00:52:25,720
Yeah, OK.

1114
00:52:25,840 --> 00:52:28,480
I felt like,
whether it was malicious or not,

1115
00:52:28,600 --> 00:52:32,200
you built it up,
and you made the intimacy

1116
00:52:32,320 --> 00:52:35,480
progress between Steven and I
a punchline

1117
00:52:35,600 --> 00:52:37,200
in a joke.
Right.

1118
00:52:37,320 --> 00:52:38,800
And then I sat there
and was like,

1119
00:52:38,920 --> 00:52:40,560
"You've just made
a joke of it, babe."

1120
00:52:40,680 --> 00:52:42,280
Like, I didn't appreciate that.

1121
00:52:42,400 --> 00:52:44,280
And you instantly turned.

1122
00:52:44,400 --> 00:52:47,080
I've just kind of said
to you like,

1123
00:52:47,200 --> 00:52:49,000
this hurt my feelings.

1124
00:52:49,120 --> 00:52:51,480
And I got the
'I'm sorry.'

1125
00:52:51,600 --> 00:52:53,880
I've got to be honest, I feel like
you were just saying sorry

1126
00:52:54,000 --> 00:52:55,080
because, like, brush it off.

1127
00:52:55,800 --> 00:52:58,400
I left because I was humiliated.
Right.

1128
00:52:58,520 --> 00:53:01,360
OK. And my relationship
is not a joke.

1129
00:53:01,480 --> 00:53:02,360
No.

1130
00:53:02,480 --> 00:53:04,960
And that's why
I was so upset.

1131
00:53:05,080 --> 00:53:07,800
Because I was like,
that's my friend up there.

1132
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:09,360
And that's why I left.

1133
00:53:09,480 --> 00:53:10,960
Because I was humiliated.

1134
00:53:11,800 --> 00:53:15,000
I think the thing for me, Rach,
is that I thought

1135
00:53:15,120 --> 00:53:19,080
that you would know, like,
it was not meant to be, um,

1136
00:53:19,200 --> 00:53:21,320
mean towards you.

1137
00:53:21,440 --> 00:53:24,400
It was actually just
a throwaway comment,

1138
00:53:24,520 --> 00:53:25,880
and it was the wrong wording.

1139
00:53:26,000 --> 00:53:29,360
And I apologise to you
for the wrong wording that was used.

1140
00:53:30,000 --> 00:53:33,440
I did not think that it would be
as big of a deal as it was.

1141
00:53:33,560 --> 00:53:35,440
I never would have said it...
It is a big deal though.

1142
00:53:35,560 --> 00:53:36,440
I never would have...

1143
00:53:36,560 --> 00:53:37,800
It's not happened to you, Bec.
It's happened to me.

1144
00:53:37,920 --> 00:53:39,920
I understand.
I never would have said it.

1145
00:53:40,040 --> 00:53:42,760
It's a banter situation
and I do apologise.

1146
00:53:42,880 --> 00:53:44,360
It was disrespectful,
the word 'finger banged.' Correct.

1147
00:53:44,480 --> 00:53:45,840
It was disgusting.
And it wasn't...

1148
00:53:46,720 --> 00:53:50,480
It was a joke. You know that
I support you and Steven. Do I?

1149
00:53:53,320 --> 00:53:55,560
You think it's intended
with malice, and it wasn't.

1150
00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,920
I never, I have said repeatedly,
the joke was

1151
00:53:58,040 --> 00:53:59,720
not intended with malice.

1152
00:53:59,840 --> 00:54:02,600
But when I told you, "you hurt my
feelings," you turned on me

1153
00:54:02,720 --> 00:54:04,240
instantly and wanted to fight.

1154
00:54:04,360 --> 00:54:05,960
Every two seconds,
you're angry at me.

1155
00:54:06,080 --> 00:54:07,480
The majority of our relationship.
That is a lie.

1156
00:54:07,600 --> 00:54:08,880
But when are you
going to be accountable

1157
00:54:09,000 --> 00:54:10,840
for repeated behaviour?
Thank you.

1158
00:54:10,960 --> 00:54:11,840
It's a pattern now.

1159
00:54:11,960 --> 00:54:13,640
It's like, how many times are
you going to do the wrong thing

1160
00:54:13,760 --> 00:54:14,680
and say sorry?

1161
00:54:15,160 --> 00:54:16,160
Sure.

1162
00:54:17,080 --> 00:54:18,120
9I feel bad for Rachel.

1163
00:54:18,240 --> 00:54:21,440
Thank god us girls are there to
listen to her and make her feel

1164
00:54:21,560 --> 00:54:24,360
validated for her feelings,
which are very normal.

1165
00:54:25,200 --> 00:54:26,840
I think Bec needs to
face the music.

1166
00:54:26,960 --> 00:54:29,320
You can't do the things
you're doing and not take

1167
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:31,160
accountability for your actions.

1168
00:54:31,280 --> 00:54:34,160
You can't throw shit
that you're throwing and not take

1169
00:54:34,280 --> 00:54:36,000
the full force of consequences.

1170
00:54:36,120 --> 00:54:37,440
I just don't think that's fair.

1171
00:54:38,120 --> 00:54:39,440
Let's call bullshit.

1172
00:54:39,560 --> 00:54:41,720
Because if you support
the relationship,

1173
00:54:41,840 --> 00:54:43,800
why are you going around at the pool
with Juliette and I

1174
00:54:43,920 --> 00:54:45,320
saying you want to get merch?

1175
00:54:50,080 --> 00:54:51,360
It was a joke!

1176
00:54:51,480 --> 00:54:53,520
No, but you carried the...
You carried the joke

1177
00:54:53,640 --> 00:54:55,360
on to the next day.
That was bad.

1178
00:54:55,480 --> 00:54:56,480
That part was really...

1179
00:54:56,600 --> 00:54:58,040
You can't be sorry,
but then carry

1180
00:54:58,160 --> 00:55:00,040
it on the next day
and, like, keep going.

1181
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:03,200
It's one thing to do
the wrong thing last night

1182
00:55:03,320 --> 00:55:06,120
and apologise, but Bec took it
in a whole 'nother level

1183
00:55:06,240 --> 00:55:07,520
by talking about it all day.

1184
00:55:07,640 --> 00:55:10,120
And she tried to cover her arse
saying, "Oh, well,

1185
00:55:10,240 --> 00:55:11,640
"you know, I take accountability.

1186
00:55:11,760 --> 00:55:12,960
I'm sorry for what
I said last night."

1187
00:55:13,080 --> 00:55:15,680
OK, but be sorry for what you
said continuously throughout

1188
00:55:15,800 --> 00:55:17,200
the day. You're not sorry.

1189
00:55:17,320 --> 00:55:19,840
Why did, today, you kept
making jokes about the merch?

1190
00:55:19,960 --> 00:55:21,280
Because it was a joke.

1191
00:55:21,400 --> 00:55:24,320
I didn't understand that
that was the level of her feelings.

1192
00:55:24,440 --> 00:55:25,800
I thought she was upset
about one word.

1193
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:26,800
But you knew that.

1194
00:55:26,920 --> 00:55:28,560
You said this morning,
"Rachel's upset

1195
00:55:28,680 --> 00:55:30,440
"and she needs to get
the (BLEEP) over it.

1196
00:55:30,560 --> 00:55:32,280
"I'm making fingerbanging merch

1197
00:55:32,400 --> 00:55:34,120
and you're gonna (BLEEP) wear it,
bitch."

1198
00:55:34,240 --> 00:55:35,360
It was a joke.

1199
00:55:35,480 --> 00:55:37,000
But be accountable
for the whole thing.

1200
00:55:37,120 --> 00:55:40,040
It was a joke. It was said once
and it was a joke

1201
00:55:40,160 --> 00:55:43,520
I didn't know
that you were so upset.

1202
00:55:43,640 --> 00:55:44,560
Guys, that's enough.

1203
00:55:46,120 --> 00:55:47,160
I'm hurt.

1204
00:55:48,240 --> 00:55:52,000
I'm the one you're talking about,
and it's disgusting.

1205
00:55:52,120 --> 00:55:54,800
Stop talking about it.
I just...

1206
00:55:58,000 --> 00:55:59,080
You humiliated me, Bec.

1207
00:55:59,200 --> 00:56:02,840
Yeah. And I know you're apologising.

1208
00:56:02,960 --> 00:56:03,840
Honestly, like I said to you...

1209
00:56:03,960 --> 00:56:05,960
And you don't have to
be my friend.

1210
00:56:06,080 --> 00:56:07,600
We don't need to have...

1211
00:56:07,720 --> 00:56:09,400
You don't need to worry about it
because you would

1212
00:56:09,520 --> 00:56:11,840
only worry about it if it
was your friend. It's fine.

1213
00:56:11,960 --> 00:56:14,320
Like, I get it.
But this has got to stop.

1214
00:56:14,440 --> 00:56:16,440
We can't keep having these
apologies, Bec,

1215
00:56:16,560 --> 00:56:18,440
around this kind of stuff,
because...

1216
00:56:18,560 --> 00:56:20,520
I apologised to
Alissa and I apologised to Joel.

1217
00:56:20,640 --> 00:56:22,600
But aren't you sick
of apologising, babe?

1218
00:56:24,560 --> 00:56:27,520
Alissa, I need to
apologise to you,

1219
00:56:27,640 --> 00:56:31,280
because my delivery of what I said
to you was unacceptable.

1220
00:56:31,400 --> 00:56:33,320
The way I spoke to you
last night,

1221
00:56:33,440 --> 00:56:37,000
I need to take accountability
for how cruel I was.

1222
00:56:37,760 --> 00:56:40,520
Obviously, like, I came in
really angry last week.

1223
00:56:40,640 --> 00:56:41,600
Yeah.

1224
00:56:41,720 --> 00:56:43,080
I was angry.

1225
00:56:43,760 --> 00:56:46,320
And I came in here and I dropped
bombs on everyone.

1226
00:56:46,440 --> 00:56:48,040
And I do apologise.

1227
00:56:48,680 --> 00:56:51,040
I'm genuinely sorry that
that your name has been

1228
00:56:51,160 --> 00:56:53,600
brought up, because
at the end of the day, it...

1229
00:56:53,720 --> 00:56:56,080
We shouldn't be talking about
your relationship anyway.

1230
00:56:56,200 --> 00:56:57,960
Bec, this is two weeks
in a row.

1231
00:56:58,080 --> 00:57:00,960
Why are you talking
about their relationship?

1232
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:02,200
Do you know what?
You're right.

1233
00:57:02,320 --> 00:57:04,240
I know I'm right.
But what I don't know

1234
00:57:04,360 --> 00:57:05,480
is why you're doing that.

1235
00:57:07,680 --> 00:57:08,920
Thank you for apologising.

1236
00:57:09,040 --> 00:57:12,720
But again, my concerns is
in the repeat behaviour.

1237
00:57:14,040 --> 00:57:16,880
Bec's always saying,
"Sorry, I didn't mean it."

1238
00:57:17,000 --> 00:57:20,280
Rachel's trying to address
the reoccurring behaviour.

1239
00:57:20,400 --> 00:57:23,360
When is she going to
wake up and just think

1240
00:57:23,480 --> 00:57:24,840
before she speaks?

1241
00:57:25,760 --> 00:57:28,160
I honestly feel like, honestly,
last night I was

1242
00:57:28,280 --> 00:57:29,280
like my number was up.

1243
00:57:29,400 --> 00:57:32,320
It was my turn to be put to
tears by Bec and I'm kind of

1244
00:57:32,440 --> 00:57:35,320
like, well, when does
this behaviour change?

1245
00:57:35,440 --> 00:57:38,680
When do the "I'm sorrys"
actually become real?

1246
00:57:42,720 --> 00:57:45,120
I'm out of here.
I am!

1247
00:57:45,840 --> 00:57:47,120
Shouldn't have to go.

1248
00:57:47,240 --> 00:57:49,160
It's fine. I'm (BLEEP) good.

1249
00:57:49,280 --> 00:57:50,440
Come back. Can you come back?

1250
00:57:56,120 --> 00:57:58,280
You can't go around
and consistently talk shit

1251
00:57:58,400 --> 00:58:00,920
about everybody that you're
friends with, and then get mad

1252
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,520
that they have a reaction
to what you're doing.

1253
00:58:03,640 --> 00:58:06,560
It's not OK. And I think again,
tonight is another

1254
00:58:06,680 --> 00:58:09,840
example of Bec's new target
getting pissed off

1255
00:58:09,960 --> 00:58:13,200
and her not handling it
and walking off like a PR move.

1256
00:58:13,320 --> 00:58:14,520
This is what she does.

1257
00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:15,640
There's nothing more to say.

1258
00:58:18,320 --> 00:58:19,960
Get me the (BLEEP) out of here now.

1259
00:58:20,080 --> 00:58:21,400
Don't leave, bubba.
Get me out of here.

1260
00:58:27,880 --> 00:58:28,880
Boring (BLEEP).

1261
00:58:41,360 --> 00:58:43,000
Danny, how are
you and Beck goin'?

1262
00:58:43,600 --> 00:58:45,840
Like, honestly, it's just gone
from strength to strength.

1263
00:58:45,960 --> 00:58:48,800
It's proved you can
build sexual chemistry.

1264
00:58:48,920 --> 00:58:50,800
You can work through
really hard problems.

1265
00:58:50,920 --> 00:58:52,280
You can talk
for hours and solve...

1266
00:58:53,320 --> 00:58:56,040
..complex issues.
It's taught me so much that,

1267
00:58:56,160 --> 00:58:58,920
like me and Becca,
at this moment in time,

1268
00:58:59,040 --> 00:59:00,120
we're in a really good place.

1269
00:59:00,240 --> 00:59:01,160
Daniel!

1270
00:59:02,200 --> 00:59:03,400
Here she is.

1271
00:59:03,520 --> 00:59:06,400
(OVERLAPPING EXCLAMATIONS)

1272
00:59:08,480 --> 00:59:09,440
Speak of the devil!

1273
00:59:09,560 --> 00:59:10,480
And she's in red!

1274
00:59:11,120 --> 00:59:13,080
You couldn't make it up.
I'm sitting by the fire.

1275
00:59:13,200 --> 00:59:14,120
It's been peaceful all night.

1276
00:59:14,240 --> 00:59:17,160
And next thing, a silhouette of
Bec comes out of the horizon.

1277
00:59:19,440 --> 00:59:22,600
And then next thing,
embers start flowing into my face.

1278
00:59:23,080 --> 00:59:25,960
The smoke's in my eyes,
bellowing in my eyes.

1279
00:59:26,080 --> 00:59:28,280
We all said Bec into
the fire three times.

1280
00:59:32,200 --> 00:59:33,160
What happened, Bec?

1281
00:59:33,280 --> 00:59:34,160
How's the girls...?

1282
00:59:34,280 --> 00:59:35,720
I need to grab him
for a second, please.

1283
00:59:35,840 --> 00:59:36,880
Oh, god.
Oh, shit.

1284
00:59:38,360 --> 00:59:41,200
Clearly, there's been
some drama at girls' night,

1285
00:59:41,320 --> 00:59:43,760
if Bec is rolling up,
dragging me out of there.

1286
00:59:53,160 --> 00:59:54,840
What just happened?

1287
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:55,840
What just happened?

1288
00:59:55,960 --> 00:59:57,040
We're just about
to hug it out.

1289
00:59:57,160 --> 00:59:58,480
We just lost a man.

1290
00:59:58,600 --> 01:00:01,640
OK, so I'm just gonna
fill you in quickly because

1291
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:03,440
I've left girls' night.

1292
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:07,400
Obviously. Because it was just
like a gang-up completely.

1293
01:00:08,480 --> 01:00:11,040
Um, basically,
I'm just letting you know,

1294
01:00:11,160 --> 01:00:12,200
Rachel got up and she goes,

1295
01:00:12,320 --> 01:00:16,000
"Last night was the most
humiliating night of my life.

1296
01:00:16,480 --> 01:00:19,160
"I have been made to be...

1297
01:00:19,640 --> 01:00:22,800
"My relationship is a joke.

1298
01:00:22,920 --> 01:00:27,200
"And I've never felt so upset
and humiliated in my life."

1299
01:00:27,920 --> 01:00:30,320
She's just sitting there,
like, hysterical,

1300
01:00:30,440 --> 01:00:31,520
being like, "It's you.

1301
01:00:31,640 --> 01:00:35,360
You need to change
your actions."

1302
01:00:35,480 --> 01:00:36,960
I was just like, "All right.
Like, whatever."

1303
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:43,760
It was like the worst thing
that's ever happened to anyone.

1304
01:00:43,880 --> 01:00:45,560
Rachel is still upset.

1305
01:00:46,120 --> 01:00:49,960
Grow up. It was a passing comment.
Grow up.

1306
01:00:50,080 --> 01:00:51,280
Move past it.

1307
01:00:51,400 --> 01:00:57,800
And Gia was like a dragon breathing
fire, like look at me.

1308
01:00:58,520 --> 01:01:03,000
And Juliette came at me. But, like,
it was no point tonight, babe.

1309
01:01:03,120 --> 01:01:04,040
Like, they were just...

1310
01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:08,440
It was just all like me,
at me, and that's fine.

1311
01:01:08,560 --> 01:01:09,480
Like, I can handle it.

1312
01:01:09,600 --> 01:01:11,640
Like, I'm not upset about it,
but I just wanted to

1313
01:01:11,760 --> 01:01:12,760
tell you what happened.

1314
01:01:12,880 --> 01:01:14,480
And...yeah.

1315
01:01:15,560 --> 01:01:18,600
I feel a bit frustrated,
to be honest, with finding out

1316
01:01:18,720 --> 01:01:22,080
what's going on at girls' night,
because it seems like a gang-up.

1317
01:01:22,200 --> 01:01:23,640
And ganging up on someone,

1318
01:01:24,360 --> 01:01:26,560
I don't think that's right,
to be honest.

1319
01:01:27,280 --> 01:01:30,200
I'm pissed off at Steveo,
like he's a (BLEEP).

1320
01:01:30,320 --> 01:01:33,840
I've helped the bloke.
He's a charity case.

1321
01:01:33,960 --> 01:01:34,960
You don't... You don't need to...

1322
01:01:35,080 --> 01:01:37,240
You don't need to have an argument
with him. Let me have it.

1323
01:01:37,360 --> 01:01:39,400
No-one attacks my wife
and gets away with it.

1324
01:01:39,520 --> 01:01:41,480
Not without me being there.
If you're going to attack her,

1325
01:01:41,600 --> 01:01:42,920
have the big boss there.

1326
01:01:43,400 --> 01:01:44,640
What's all that about?

1327
01:01:45,720 --> 01:01:47,720
It's like someone kicking
your little brother.

1328
01:01:47,840 --> 01:01:48,760
Can you kiss me.

1329
01:01:50,280 --> 01:01:52,680
That shit pisses me off.
Like...

1330
01:01:54,320 --> 01:01:55,880
Oh, she's foul, man.

1331
01:01:59,320 --> 01:02:00,440
Let's do a chat.

1332
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:02,960
Let's do two on two
and let's have it like men.

1333
01:02:07,320 --> 01:02:08,640
Hey, fellas, looks like
there's a storm!

1334
01:02:08,760 --> 01:02:09,800
Do you want to do it?

1335
01:02:09,920 --> 01:02:11,320
Let's go.

1336
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:16,560
Let's go, let's go,
let's go!

1337
01:02:19,120 --> 01:02:20,400
Steveo.

1338
01:02:20,520 --> 01:02:22,240
Can we have a chat with you?
Me and Bec?

1339
01:02:22,360 --> 01:02:23,240
(GROANS)

1340
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:25,720
Sorry, guys, can you all go?
'Cause we're going to have a chat.

1341
01:02:25,840 --> 01:02:26,960
Is that OK?
(ALL EXCLAIM)

1342
01:02:27,080 --> 01:02:28,640
I'd love to stay.

1343
01:02:28,760 --> 01:02:31,160
That's OK.

1344
01:02:31,280 --> 01:02:32,880
(TENSE MUSIC)

1345
01:02:33,000 --> 01:02:35,680
Where's... Is Rachel...
Can we get Rachel?

1346
01:02:35,800 --> 01:02:37,120
But let me just
explain to him.

1347
01:02:37,240 --> 01:02:39,000
I think we get Rachel
before you explain.

1348
01:02:39,120 --> 01:02:40,720
OK.
I think we do.

1349
01:02:40,840 --> 01:02:42,400
You mind?
Go get Rachel.

1350
01:02:42,520 --> 01:02:43,440
Let's go get Rachel.

1351
01:02:43,560 --> 01:02:44,480
OK.

1352
01:02:45,040 --> 01:02:48,760
(OVERLAPPING CHATTER, LAUGHTER)

1353
01:02:48,880 --> 01:02:50,680
I'm really happy with
girls' night!

1354
01:02:52,480 --> 01:02:54,640
I just really hate that
Bec's not here for this.

1355
01:02:54,760 --> 01:02:57,440
I think it would have been...
No, no, no...

1356
01:02:57,560 --> 01:02:58,920
Regardless of what
happened at the start of

1357
01:02:59,040 --> 01:03:00,640
the night, it's a shame
that she missed this bit.

1358
01:03:00,760 --> 01:03:03,520
And it's really sad that one of us
is not here.

1359
01:03:03,640 --> 01:03:04,520
But she chose to leave.

1360
01:03:04,640 --> 01:03:06,480
No, I get that.
But regardless, it would have

1361
01:03:06,600 --> 01:03:08,400
been nice if she was sitting here
having these moments.

1362
01:03:08,520 --> 01:03:12,200
And she can. Another day
when things feel better.

1363
01:03:13,720 --> 01:03:15,120
Hey, Rach.
Hello.

1364
01:03:15,240 --> 01:03:17,560
We've got Steven up at the house,
and I think the four of us

1365
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:18,720
need to have a chat.

1366
01:03:19,360 --> 01:03:20,480
Oh, OK. Well...

1367
01:03:21,520 --> 01:03:22,640
Let's go.

1368
01:03:22,760 --> 01:03:25,040
I guess, guys, I'm leaving
girls' night early.

1369
01:03:25,160 --> 01:03:27,760
That's not my choice,
fantastic.

1370
01:03:27,880 --> 01:03:29,600
You don't have to go, Rach.
It's fine.

1371
01:03:29,720 --> 01:03:31,000
You guys have pulled me out.
I'm coming.

1372
01:03:32,280 --> 01:03:35,000
I don't think that this
is actually really fair, like...

1373
01:03:35,120 --> 01:03:36,040
Anyway.

1374
01:03:37,040 --> 01:03:38,480
Hold on a minute, sweetheart.

1375
01:03:38,600 --> 01:03:41,680
We're coming to get you out of
respect because we don't want to

1376
01:03:41,800 --> 01:03:43,280
talk without you being there.

1377
01:03:43,400 --> 01:03:44,840
We want to speak,
all four of us.

1378
01:03:44,960 --> 01:03:46,360
We don't want to speak,
three of us.

1379
01:03:46,480 --> 01:03:48,400
So cut out the comments.

1380
01:03:48,520 --> 01:03:51,000
There's no need for
the bullshit comments.

1381
01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:53,040
Just leave the room like a lady.

1382
01:03:53,160 --> 01:03:54,600
That's fine. Thank you all.

1383
01:03:54,720 --> 01:03:55,640
Have a lovely evening.

1384
01:03:56,240 --> 01:03:57,680
It's a resolution.

1385
01:03:57,800 --> 01:03:58,960
No, well, I just...
anyway.

1386
01:04:00,720 --> 01:04:01,960
Where's your head at, babe?

1387
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:03,440
Just can't leave the room.

1388
01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:04,520
Be respectful.

1389
01:04:05,440 --> 01:04:06,880
Love you all.

1390
01:04:09,000 --> 01:04:10,680
Don't know why you've got
to make comments like that.

1391
01:04:22,280 --> 01:04:23,600
The four of us
need to have a chat.

1392
01:04:24,120 --> 01:04:25,320
Oh, OK. Well...

1393
01:04:25,440 --> 01:04:26,360
Let's go.

1394
01:04:27,840 --> 01:04:30,200
I guess, guys,
I'm leaving girls night early.

1395
01:04:30,320 --> 01:04:32,920
That's not my choice.
Fantastic.

1396
01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:34,640
You don't have to go, Rach,
if you don't want.

1397
01:04:34,760 --> 01:04:36,160
No, it's fine. You guys have
pulled me out. I'm coming.

1398
01:04:37,400 --> 01:04:40,240
I don't think that this
is actually really fair.

1399
01:04:40,360 --> 01:04:42,640
Anyway...
No, that's fine.

1400
01:04:42,760 --> 01:04:44,640
Thank you all.
Have a lovely evening.

1401
01:04:44,760 --> 01:04:46,240
It's a resolution.

1402
01:04:46,720 --> 01:04:50,000
No. Well, I just, anyway...
Love you all.

1403
01:04:52,800 --> 01:04:54,440
Don't know why you've got
to make comments like that.

1404
01:04:58,000 --> 01:05:02,000
(DRAMATIC MUSIC)

1405
01:05:28,920 --> 01:05:32,640
Firstly I want to say, Rachel,
the comments you just said in there

1406
01:05:32,760 --> 01:05:34,480
wasn't called for.

1407
01:05:34,600 --> 01:05:37,080
We brought you here out of respect
because we wanted to

1408
01:05:37,200 --> 01:05:38,560
have a four-way conversation.

1409
01:05:38,680 --> 01:05:40,840
So comments like that, "I'm being
dragged away" and all that...

1410
01:05:40,960 --> 01:05:42,040
No, no, no...
Because of us.

1411
01:05:42,160 --> 01:05:43,440
It's respect.

1412
01:05:43,560 --> 01:05:45,720
Can I step in? Can I step in?
Rach...

1413
01:05:45,840 --> 01:05:48,440
All I'm saying is we came
in there polite and said,

1414
01:05:48,560 --> 01:05:50,000
"Can we have a conversation?"

1415
01:05:50,120 --> 01:05:51,800
You didn't have to make
a big melee out of it

1416
01:05:51,920 --> 01:05:52,920
when you're leaving the group.

1417
01:05:53,680 --> 01:05:55,480
We pulled you out there
for respect because

1418
01:05:55,600 --> 01:05:57,800
we didn't want to have this
conversation with everyone.

1419
01:05:57,920 --> 01:05:59,320
I don't really appreciate that.
Everyone who just attacked me.

1420
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:05,720
I pulled Danny aside tonight,
and I can hold my own, right.

1421
01:06:05,840 --> 01:06:10,240
I understand that I made
a comment that was a throwaway

1422
01:06:10,360 --> 01:06:15,080
comment that, as we've all agreed,
Daniel, you and Rachel

1423
01:06:15,200 --> 01:06:18,760
and I all agree that the term
that I used was...

1424
01:06:20,800 --> 01:06:24,000
Not used with malice,
but the poor choice of words.

1425
01:06:24,120 --> 01:06:28,000
But...it wasn't done in
malice.

1426
01:06:28,120 --> 01:06:30,000
And you know that, you know that,

1427
01:06:30,120 --> 01:06:32,120
Rachel knows that, right?
No worries.

1428
01:06:34,800 --> 01:06:39,200
I think what hurt me tonight
the most was that you've let

1429
01:06:39,320 --> 01:06:40,840
everyone attack me.

1430
01:06:40,960 --> 01:06:44,080
But when it's OK for you,
because you're being backed up...

1431
01:06:44,200 --> 01:06:46,920
No, honey. ..everyone's allowed to d
that to me. That's not OK.

1432
01:06:47,040 --> 01:06:49,600
No. You have to practice
what you preach, honey.

1433
01:06:50,600 --> 01:06:52,040
It just felt aggressive.

1434
01:06:52,160 --> 01:06:54,080
Everything's on their terms.

1435
01:06:54,200 --> 01:06:56,280
It's gotta happen
on their time.

1436
01:06:56,400 --> 01:07:00,480
Even though the actions
of Bec

1437
01:07:00,600 --> 01:07:03,120
are what have, you know,
caused me to feel this way.

1438
01:07:03,600 --> 01:07:05,520
I'll be honest.
And this is my opinion.

1439
01:07:05,640 --> 01:07:07,640
I think you've made
a mountain out of a molehill.

1440
01:07:07,760 --> 01:07:09,800
Because you kicked off
in front of everyone.

1441
01:07:09,920 --> 01:07:12,080
I didn't, kick off's
a bit of a stretch.

1442
01:07:12,200 --> 01:07:13,560
Did you or did you not

1443
01:07:13,680 --> 01:07:15,720
say in front of the whole group?
It's on camera.

1444
01:07:15,840 --> 01:07:17,240
I didn't kick off, though.
You shouted.

1445
01:07:17,360 --> 01:07:18,240
She didn't yell.

1446
01:07:18,360 --> 01:07:19,840
I didn't,
I didn't kick off.

1447
01:07:19,960 --> 01:07:22,720
OK, OK, saying I kicked off
is a bit...I was upset

1448
01:07:22,840 --> 01:07:25,680
and I said, "Hey, you've just
made a joke of my relationship."

1449
01:07:25,800 --> 01:07:27,240
You said you didn't...what was
your words?

1450
01:07:27,360 --> 01:07:28,800
I was like,
you've just made a joke

1451
01:07:28,920 --> 01:07:29,800
of my relationship.

1452
01:07:29,920 --> 01:07:31,120
She said she didn't
make a big deal.

1453
01:07:31,240 --> 01:07:32,400
Yeah.
But you did.

1454
01:07:32,520 --> 01:07:36,600
Yeah. Look, this
means a lot to Rachel.

1455
01:07:36,720 --> 01:07:38,520
It means a lot to me
for you guys.

1456
01:07:38,640 --> 01:07:40,000
It means, it means so much.

1457
01:07:40,120 --> 01:07:41,600
That's why she brought it up.

1458
01:07:41,720 --> 01:07:43,400
That's why she told everyone.
That's why she...

1459
01:07:43,520 --> 01:07:46,920
At the very beginning of the party,
she brought this up.

1460
01:07:47,040 --> 01:07:49,080
Then it turned into attacking.

1461
01:07:49,200 --> 01:07:51,880
Then Rachel removed herself
so she wouldn't

1462
01:07:52,000 --> 01:07:53,400
make a big deal out of it.

1463
01:07:53,520 --> 01:07:56,000
She removed herself
from the situation.

1464
01:07:56,120 --> 01:07:57,760
She was incredibly hurt.

1465
01:07:58,840 --> 01:08:01,200
You guys can say
and do whatever you want.

1466
01:08:01,320 --> 01:08:04,720
I can have a bunch of girls
come at me and I can sit there.

1467
01:08:04,840 --> 01:08:07,560
I'm sorry. At the end of the day,
I'm getting

1468
01:08:07,680 --> 01:08:10,640
so many different stories,
to the point where

1469
01:08:10,760 --> 01:08:13,840
I'm told I'm a joke because of thing
that you've said.

1470
01:08:13,960 --> 01:08:15,080
Who said that?
Who!

1471
01:08:15,200 --> 01:08:16,200
Gia.

1472
01:08:16,320 --> 01:08:17,720
Well, there you go.

1473
01:08:17,840 --> 01:08:19,560
Gia and Juliette
are lying to you.

1474
01:08:19,680 --> 01:08:20,800
It's a lie.

1475
01:08:20,920 --> 01:08:23,920
You're saying one thing to me
and said another thing to them.

1476
01:08:24,040 --> 01:08:25,880
I never would have done that.

1477
01:08:26,000 --> 01:08:28,120
So you've got liars
bullshitting you,

1478
01:08:28,240 --> 01:08:29,560
and you're gonna take it.
And then...

1479
01:08:29,680 --> 01:08:31,120
I didn't take
any of that.

1480
01:08:31,240 --> 01:08:33,680
You know
she's a (BLEEP) liar.

1481
01:08:36,160 --> 01:08:39,240
Steveo, do you think
that what I said

1482
01:08:39,360 --> 01:08:40,640
was said with malice?

1483
01:08:40,760 --> 01:08:43,280
Because I'm confused.

1484
01:08:43,400 --> 01:08:45,960
I'll answer the question.
I said this to Rachel last night.

1485
01:08:46,960 --> 01:08:50,960
I don't, I believe the comment
was disrespectful.

1486
01:08:51,080 --> 01:08:52,360
Bad taste.

1487
01:08:52,480 --> 01:08:55,440
Just a poor choice of words
and all the above.

1488
01:08:55,560 --> 01:08:57,560
I don't believe there was
any malice behind it.

1489
01:08:57,680 --> 01:08:59,400
I don't believe there
was malicious intent

1490
01:08:59,520 --> 01:09:00,400
behind it.
Thank you.

1491
01:09:00,520 --> 01:09:03,000
I said that to Rachel last night,
but it doesn't,

1492
01:09:03,120 --> 01:09:05,640
it doesn't excuse the fact
that it was disrespectful

1493
01:09:05,760 --> 01:09:08,120
and it was still a poor choice
of words and all that.

1494
01:09:08,240 --> 01:09:10,320
Everything there still stands.
100%.

1495
01:09:10,440 --> 01:09:12,480
And I agree with you.
I spoke to him this afternoon.

1496
01:09:12,600 --> 01:09:14,480
I sat down with him in our
lounge room and spoke to him

1497
01:09:14,600 --> 01:09:15,760
and said, "Do you know what?

1498
01:09:16,480 --> 01:09:18,360
I really love you
and I really love Rach."

1499
01:09:18,480 --> 01:09:20,360
Why are you talking
to my husband off camera?

1500
01:09:23,040 --> 01:09:26,120
Did I know that you two had
a conversation this afternoon?

1501
01:09:26,240 --> 01:09:28,760
No, because you didn't tell me.

1502
01:09:29,440 --> 01:09:31,320
Did you speak to Bec
this afternoon?

1503
01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:37,560
Did you guys speak this afternoon
and patch all this up?

1504
01:09:37,680 --> 01:09:38,680
We didn't patch it up.

1505
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:42,240
I just said to her what
I felt her comment was

1506
01:09:42,360 --> 01:09:43,760
was disrespectful and everything.

1507
01:09:43,880 --> 01:09:46,240
Exactly everything I said
just then, I repeated.

1508
01:09:46,360 --> 01:09:49,360
The conversation lasted 60 seconds.
It doesn't matter.

1509
01:09:50,080 --> 01:09:52,800
I'm actually feeling
a little bit betrayed

1510
01:09:52,920 --> 01:09:54,680
a bit here, babe.
I've got to be... No!

1511
01:09:54,800 --> 01:09:56,560
I'm gonna stop this
conversation right now.

1512
01:09:56,680 --> 01:09:58,760
I do feel let down
by Steven tonight.

1513
01:09:58,880 --> 01:10:00,520
I feel really let down.

1514
01:10:00,640 --> 01:10:02,680
Just like you needed
to leave girls' night,

1515
01:10:03,240 --> 01:10:04,680
I now need to leave this.

1516
01:10:05,440 --> 01:10:07,480
I feel quite hurt
and disappointed.

1517
01:10:08,120 --> 01:10:11,960
You know, we keep talking how we're
united, we've got each other's back.

1518
01:10:12,440 --> 01:10:14,360
You didn't have my back, babe.

1519
01:10:15,320 --> 01:10:16,320
You didn't.

1520
01:10:17,560 --> 01:10:19,440
And so now I'm kind of like...

1521
01:10:20,800 --> 01:10:23,360
What else are you saying about me
behind my back?

1522
01:10:32,680 --> 01:10:33,880
NARRATOR: Tomorrow night...

1523
01:10:34,000 --> 01:10:35,400
No-one's spoken to me
at all today.

1524
01:10:35,920 --> 01:10:38,720
..Bec and Danny,
isolated from the group.

1525
01:10:38,840 --> 01:10:42,440
A comment has been taken
out of proportion so much.

1526
01:10:44,440 --> 01:10:47,080
Wherever Bec goes,
misery follows.

1527
01:10:47,200 --> 01:10:50,320
And Gia and Juliette
seize the opportunity to

1528
01:10:50,440 --> 01:10:52,360
further stir up the tension.

1529
01:10:52,480 --> 01:10:54,160
I do not know
why she does this.

1530
01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:56,440
I don't think I could ever,
ever, ever trust her again.

1531
01:10:57,360 --> 01:10:58,560
How is Bec the victim?

1532
01:11:00,000 --> 01:11:04,040
Can a romantic beach date
help calm Stella's anxiety?

1533
01:11:04,160 --> 01:11:05,760
Has I love you been said?

1534
01:11:05,880 --> 01:11:07,880
I really would appreciate
if everyone just drop it.

1535
01:11:08,960 --> 01:11:11,640
Do you think that
I did this to hurt you?

1536
01:11:11,760 --> 01:11:13,840
And then,
at the final night drinks...

1537
01:11:13,960 --> 01:11:15,600
You're not understanding.

1538
01:11:15,720 --> 01:11:17,200
Mic dropped. See you later.

1539
01:11:17,320 --> 01:11:19,520
Tell me you don't
accept my apology

1540
01:11:19,640 --> 01:11:21,040
or accept it and move on.

1541
01:11:21,160 --> 01:11:22,720
..lingering group tension...

1542
01:11:22,840 --> 01:11:24,680
You two have both done
wrong by me and my wife.

1543
01:11:24,800 --> 01:11:28,040
How! ..sends the retreat
into turmoil.

1544
01:11:28,160 --> 01:11:29,320
Let's go. Bring it on.

1545
01:11:29,440 --> 01:11:30,600
I'm so sick of this.

1546
01:11:30,720 --> 01:11:33,520
You're the puppeteer.
I'm the puppeteer?

1547
01:11:33,640 --> 01:11:35,760
I'm done being manipulated!
No-one knows who you are.

1548
01:11:35,880 --> 01:11:37,400
Stop manipulating me!

1549
01:11:37,520 --> 01:11:40,440
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